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How to leave a legacy that lasts: Wisdom from my dad who lived an extraordinary life

Season 3, Ep. 3

"Stories are how people remember us"


We live in a world that rewards the NOW, the instant gratification — the next milestone, the next win, the next announcement.

But legacy? That’s the slow burn, the series of small moments and choices that leave an impact on the lives around you. That's the stuff that make up the stories that transcend time, and stays forever.


In this solo episode, Sabahat reflects on the lessons her father left behind — quiet, powerful reminders of what it really means to live a life that leaves an imprint.


From humility and bravery to kindness, storytelling, and trust, this episode is a gentle reminder that legacy isn’t something you leave behind after you’re gone — it’s something you live, every single day.

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