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meditation, trauma in the body & living in bad faith

Yaay new episode! This week's episode is very chit-chatty and all over the place. We talk briefly about meditation and the ways in which trauma lives in the body. And then we discuss all the various ways that we tend to live in bad faith and differentiate between actively living vs passively settling into life's circumstances. And, so much more!!


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