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Big Fat Negative: TTC, fertility, infertility and IVF

Queer baby-making, with Marea Goodman

Season 7, Ep. 5

If you make it past the unusually rambly intro, this episode we talk to Marea Goodman, a midwife who specialises in helping queer couples to conceive. We discuss at-home IUIs and the dangers of buying sperm online.


Meanwhile, Professor Tim is talking about sex: should you do it after an embryo transfer?


Swears, probably.

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