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We Made a Dollar & Lost Our Kids to the Saga Boys
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It's Friday Wine Down time, babes and this episode is a chaotic mix of celebration and confusion.
đ WIN: We made our very first dollar from this podcast. Thatâs right this chaotic corner of the internet is officially monetised.
đ WHINE: My kids are now deeply obsessed with the Saga Boys and I have absolutely no idea whatâs going on. Is it music? A cult? TikTok? All three?
We unpack the wild ride of raising kids in the content era, learning to celebrate the little wins, and embracing the weird parts of motherhood (like having to Google who your 8-year-old is dancing to).
This episode is for:
- Mums chasing a side hustle win
- Parents confused by their kidsâ pop culture obsessions
- Listeners who want to celebrate the small stuff and laugh through the rest
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