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Beyond BJU: Exposing Fundamentalism
Recognizing Spiritual Abuse - PATREON BONUS PREVIEW
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In this Patreon bonus episode, I discuss the concept of spiritual abuse, delving into my personal journey of discovering and defining it. I share insights on how spiritual abuse manifests, often in high-control religious groups, through controlling language and suppressing individual identity. Drawing from various sources, I offer definitions and examples of spiritual abuse, highlighting its impact on mental health and self-perception. I emphasize the subtlety of spiritual abuse, its coercive nature, and its widespread existence across different religious contexts.
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