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Surviving Divorce, Online Dating and Icks

Ep. 4

Hi! Thanks for tuning into Episode 4 of Bedtime Snack! Today we are talking about surviving divorce, online dating and ICKS. Have you ever heard of an ick? If not, you’ll learn what it is today, baby. I am in no way a relationship expert, but I have gotten to the other side of a divorce, I’ve done a decent amount of online dating post-divorce and found a great partner, and I got really familiar with crafting “ick lists” along the way. So today is all about all of that! I’ll chat about:


My experience with divorce and the biggest lessons I learned


Dating post-divorce and making online dating work for you,


And how to craft a beautiful ick list to keep you grounded while dating


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MENTIONED IN THE SHOW:

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Zarna Garg- watch my favorite episode of Good Hang where she is interviewed by Amy Poehler here

The Farm at South Mountain

Triangle Smart Divorce- my divorce legal team! Getting divorced in NC? Use them!

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Dating Coach Erika Ettin

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