Becoming Emotionally Available

In this episode of Becoming Emotionally Available, Dagmar Kusiak does something different: instead of leading with prepared questions, she opens herself up to being coached. Joined by consultant Philip Hunt, this conversation explores what it means to manifest a life partner through faith, trust, surrender, and heart alignment. Together, they unpack the difference between forcing an outcome and allowing God to lead the process.Philip shares his personal journey of living by faith, the spiritual principle of sowing and reaping, and why true manifestation begins within. Before looking outside for the right partner, he invites Dagmar — and the listener — to look inward: Who am I? What does my heart truly desire? And who do I become when I feel safe, supported, joyful, and free?This episode is a heartfelt conversation about love, faith, emotional availability, and letting go of control so you can become aligned with the relationship you’re praying for.

Are they just talking to you, or are they actually building a connection with you?In this episode of Becoming Emotionally Available, we explore why attention, chemistry, texting, and “I miss you” are not enough to create a healthy relationship.For singles who want real love, this conversation will help you spot the difference between words and effort, chemistry and compatibility, and contact and connection.Because someone can like you and still not be capable of building with you.And if this episode resonates with you, and you want a safe place to practice healthy communication, get honest feedback, and grow alongside other singles who are doing the work, email me at dagmar@breakthepatterns.com.

What if feeling “different” was never the problem? In this episode of Becoming Emotionally Available, I sit down with Kenan to talk about disability, fear of judgment, emotional isolation, dating, rejection, and learning to trust your own timing instead of comparing your life to everyone else’s.We explore:the hidden cost of feeling differentwhy people withdraw after embarrassmentfear of vulnerability and rejectionself-abandonment patternslearning to stay connected instead of shutting downIf you’ve ever felt misunderstood, emotionally behind, or afraid of being judged, this conversation will resonate deeply.Maybe the question isn’t:“What’s wrong with me?”Maybe it’s:“What gifts do I bring to the world because of what I’ve been through?”Take the quiz to find your patterns that may be keeping you stuck in your relationships: https://32v3xg8h58a.typeform.com/lovepattern

In this episode, we dive into honest conversations around relationships, emotional maturity, communication, and the patterns that quietly shape how we show up with others.My guest shares their personal experiences, challenges, and insights around navigating conflict, connection, healing, and growth — while we unpack what it really takes to build healthier relationships and have the uncomfortable conversations most people avoid.If you’ve ever struggled with defensiveness, emotional shutdown, people-pleasing, boundaries, or repeating the same relationship patterns… this conversation is for you.Join my upcoming workshop to break the patterns keeping you suck. RSVP here: http://www.breakthepatterns.com/event-online

I went on a date with a man who said all the right things, until dinner. What he said within 20 minutes revealed the biggest red flag in dating... and it shook me. But here's the real story: it's not just about him. It's about how we ignore our gut, move too fast, and call it chemistry when it's actually anxious attachment. If you've ever felt that tension between excitement and discernment, this one's for you.

I’m a relationship coach. I’ve done the work. And still… I almost dated a covert narcissist. In this episode, I share how it happened, what I missed, and the 6 big lessons I learned. Because even the “experts” get it wrong sometimes, and that’s okay. Join me on my upcoming workshop to create a clear vision and not miss these signs: www.insidesmatchjourney.com

If your love goal is tied to a deadline, it might be keeping you stuck. In this episode, dating coach Dagmar Kusiak shares why focusing on outcomes (like getting married this year) backfires, and what to do instead. Learn how to Shift from pressure to purpose, Build a clear, honest relationship vision, Spot real emotional safety, and Ask the right questions early. Plus, get the scoop on Dagmar’s free two-day workshop to map your relationship goals with clarity and confidence. Register here: www.insidesmatchjourney.com

Ever fallen hard for someone, only to find out they’re emotionally unavailable with a side of chaos? Yeah, me too. In this episode, I unpack why that “spark” often means familiar trauma, not true connection. We’ll dive into the neuroscience behind attraction, how your brain’s filter (the Reticular Activating System) keeps pulling you toward the wrong partners, and the 6 areas that actually matter when choosing love. This isn’t manifestation fluff, it’s brain science meets real talk.🎧 Listen now + join my free Vision to Relationship workshop: 👉 insidesmatchjourney.com