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Episode 313 - Achieving Your Best
Every day of our lives is an invitation to take a step closer to our life's purpose, find it if we haven't yet, reassess and correct the course of our direction towards our goals if needed, and challenge ourselves to become better than the day before.
Having an inspiring and motivating purpose is a life enlarger; it makes us want to improve, learn new tricks, and set and achieve new personal and professional goals.
Today's episode is an invitation to live by a purpose, to have weekly, monthly, and or annual goals, and develop a system to keep us accountable for them. We go through a couple of personal stories to illustrate the power and the benefits of designing a purpose and committing to achieving it, the 5,000 shot goal, and the life-changing experience of turning a dream into a plan.
Tune in to Episode 313 of Becoming Your Best and get inspired to seek a purpose, design a plan to achieve it, and have a fun time doing it.
In This Episode, You Will Learn:
- No one wants to be guilty of the description "old dogs can't learn new tricks." (3:27)
- The possibility of reflecting on our personal vision and purpose (5:06)
- The 5,000 shot goal (5:41)
- Having an inspiring purpose as the secret for longevity (13:11)
- Turning dreams into plans (14:59)
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