Basically Besties

In this week's episode, Deja interviews Kat all about her 40th birthday. She shares what went down on her surprise trip to Mexico, as well as the life lessons she has learned along the way. If you're a loyal bestie, this is one that you don't want to miss! Join us in celebrating Kat's birthday!

Dance Moms star Ashley Hosbach joins us to talk about the beautiful (and slightly heartbreaking) reality of watching your child become independent. From moving to Pittsburgh for the hit reality TV show with just two weeks' notice to helping Presley navigate fame, criticism, and career opportunities, Ashley shares the lessons she's learned as both a dance mom and a momager. We dive into parenting through major life transitions, staying grounded in the entertainment industry, and what comes next when your kids start building lives of their own.

In this mini-episode, Kat and Deja advise one of the besties on how to get back in the dating scene with confidence after a break up. Listen to hear how the girls would approach going on the first date after splitting up with your ex and making the most of it!

This week, we're diving into all things dating, relationships, and crushes. From our most embarrassing moments in front of people we liked to the biggest red flags and icks we'd never ignore, nothing is off limits. We talk about what makes a healthy relationship last, why communication matters, and whether finding "the one" is better than playing the dating game. We also share our thoughts on modern dating, why talking stages are so confusing, our dream first dates, and answer some rapid-fire relationship questions. 

In this mini episode, Kat and Deja discuss mean girls and how to handle the heat.... Bestie, put them in the Burn Book. Listen in to hear how Kat and Deja would handle this situation and give their bestie advice!

This week’s episode gets real. From awkward “side eye” moments in public to childhood bullying, fake friendships, and online hate, we’re talking about the judgment people project onto others — and how we’ve learned to protect our peace instead of feeding into the drama. Sometimes the best response is standing up for yourself… and sometimes it’s just hitting block.

On this week's mini episode, one of our listeners' third eye chakra is off... The girls give advice on traveling to different places with your besties, trusting your gut, and making the most of girls trips. Listen in to find out what the girls think you should do when your friends have an unsafe travel plan!

This week, the girls kick things off with endless rain ruining swim plans, to painful neck injuries, to finding out people have been talking behind their backs. The conversation quickly turns into all things travel as they unpack their very different vacation personalities, upcoming trips across Europe and Japan, and the chaos that comes with nonstop flights and family holidays.They share hilarious stories about overpacking, detailed itineraries, shopping habits, and the emotional attachment to archived fashion, while also getting real about travel safety, backpacker horror stories, and the lessons they’ve learned from traveling overseas. It’s part travel diary, part therapy session, and fully the kind of chaotic bestie conversation you’d expect.