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The Very Social Lawyer Episode
Season 3, Ep. 9
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Sade Doherty works hard - at being a business lawyer, family court assessor, school governor, Musical Society of Nigeria trustee, Centre for Contemporary Arts trustee, and at that most social of High Church communities, The Pink Ladies of the Cathedral Church of Christ.
In this episode, we talk about:
- wearing many hats
- being 'se kari' or in English - strategic
- hard work
- Obama
- Nigerian politics today
and groan, the joke - never smutty but not clean either.
A light, soufflé of an episode. You'll love it.
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