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School mums special: WTF is a PTA and a million more questions

Season 2, Ep. 11

A special episode of Stylist's Baby On The Brain series; this one-off is a deepdive into parenting as a school mum hosted by soon-to-be school mum Felicity Thistlethwaite. This episode features the ever-requested 'how do they do it?' question about holding down a career and managing school timetables, why it's so important to fill in the forms in a certain order, and where Stylist mums buy their school shoes.

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