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Drinking to Mask and Unmask: We Thought Everyone Did This
Sometimes the stories families tell about what is "normal" look very different after a diagnosis.
Chelsey Flood is joined by her mum, Caroline Dale, for a conversation about family, misunderstanding, drinking, and late diagnosis. Together they reflect on the assumptions families make, the experiences that go unnoticed, and how understanding neurodivergence can change the way we view the past.
In this episode:
- Family relationships and understanding
- Drinking culture and expectations
- Late diagnosis
- Looking back with new perspective
- Neurodivergence within families
Content Note: This episode includes discussion of family relationships, alcohol use, and late diagnosis.
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