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Autism Help: Autism and Intelligence

Season 19, Ep. 7
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In this episode of Autism Help, Heather McKay explores the relationship between intelligence and neurodivergence, questioning how we measure intelligence and why different ways of thinking are so often misunderstood.


Heather discusses the limitations and biases of IQ testing, spiky cognitive profiles, giftedness and the challenges faced by autistic and ADHD people whose abilities and support needs may not fit traditional expectations. Drawing on her experiences as a parent, teacher, and neurodivergent person, she examines how schools can overlook individual strengths, why it matters to support deep interests and different learning styles, and why intelligence shouldn't be confused with conformity or conventional ideas of success.


Content Note:

This episode includes discussion of educational discrimination, negative experiences at school, disability-related stigma and autistic burnout. Please listen with care if these subjects may be difficult for you.


Disclaimer:

This podcast is for general information only and does not constitute medical or legal advice. Please consult an appropriately qualified professional about your individual circumstances.


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🎙️ Executive Producers: Amy Burns, Anamaria B Call, Andrew Banner, Anna Goodson, Ashley Apelzin, Audrea Volker, Ben Coulson, Brian Churcek, Cappy Hamper, Carley Biblin, Charlene Deva, Chloe Cross, Clay Duhigg, Clayton Oliver, Danny Dunn, Daria Brown, David Garrido, Emily Burgess, Eric Crane, Erik Stenerud, Fiona Baker, Grace Norman, Helen Shaddock, Jaimie Collins, Jason Killian, Jen Unruh, Jennifer Carpenter, Julia Tretter, Kathie Watson-Gray, Kenneth Knowles, Kira Cotter, Kristine Lang, Kyle Raney, Llew P Williams, Laura Alvarado, Laura De Vito, Laura Provonsha, Lily George, Nelly Darmi, Nigel Rogers, Rachel Miller, Tim Scott, Tyler Kunz, Victoria Steed, Yanina Wood.


🎧 Producers: AJ Knight, Bobby Simon, Da Kovac, Eleanor Collins, Emily Griffiths, Hannah Hughes, Jennifer Kemp, Jonas Fløde, Kate F, Katie N Benitez, Kendra Murphy, Lisa Dennys, Logan Wall, Louise Lomas, Melissa Nance, Nicola Owen, Rebecka Johansson, Sam Morris, Sarah Hannah Morris.

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