{"version":"1.0","type":"rich","provider_name":"Acast","provider_url":"https://acast.com","height":250,"width":700,"html":"<iframe src=\"https://embed.acast.com/$/cd9a58da-4a0a-5c3f-b6d3-91d0e8e56f76/69388d4534867e026df2fb4a?\" frameBorder=\"0\" width=\"700\" height=\"250\"></iframe>","title":"S15 Ep. 4: STI Testing Etiquette, Staying Interested Post Orgasm, and Do I Deserve an Affair?","description":"<p>In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:</p><p><br></p><p>1) I’ve been married a long time and our kids are about to graduate—the pressure is finally off. I’m as happy as you can be with someone you’ve been with for 25-odd years. Meaning, I’m also bored. I’ve paid my dues, and I want some excitement. There’s a man in my life that’s paying me a lot of attention. Am I bad for thinking that if I’m discreet and careful, I kind of deserve to have fun?</p><p><br></p><p>2) Do you have a solution for the age-old problem for everyone who has sex: If one of you orgasms first—usually the woman, because ‘she comes first’ is a good motto—how do you maintain interest? Once you’ve climaxed, the horniness disappears and everything is half-hearted.</p><p><br></p><p>3) What is the etiquette these days for STI testing with a new partner? I’ve only had one sexual partner my whole life and am out there dating again. I know what’s recommended, but how many people follow these guidelines? I don’t want to look out of touch.</p><p><br></p><p>To have Tracey and Kelsey discuss YOUR secret sex question, enter it anonymously at <a href=\"https://sextokpod.com/anonymous-questions\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">https://bit.ly/3C4AelU</a></p><p><br></p><p>Want a copy of Tracey’s book, Great Sex Starts at 50? Enter code GREATSEX on <a href=\"https://www.chroniclebooks.com/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">ChronicleBooks.com</a> for 30% off!</p>","author_name":"Produced by Zibby Audio"}