{"version":"1.0","type":"rich","provider_name":"Acast","provider_url":"https://acast.com","height":250,"width":700,"html":"<iframe src=\"https://embed.acast.com/$/a3c828c3-73ec-4a4b-995c-958894896ec0/62ed1c08991f8600138998f8?\" frameBorder=\"0\" width=\"700\" height=\"250\"></iframe>","title":"\"Men have no friends and women bear the burden”","thumbnail_width":200,"thumbnail_height":200,"thumbnail_url":"https://open-images.acast.com/shows/611e766b06c05e99e7f4093f/1659875534909-0aff5f752af36a8284028e3f4d6be079.jpeg?height=200","description":"<p>Lots of my favourite podcasts have gone on summer break, so I wanted to keep putting some episodes out. </p><p><br></p><p>But maybe you don't want something that is too work related in the midst of the summer, so this is an episode that is more <em>psychology</em> and <em>life</em> than <em>workplace culture</em>. It's a lovely discussion with Max Dickins author of 'Billy No Mates'.</p><p><br></p><p>I got so much from the book - and from the discussion. Max reflects on the <em>geezerish</em> persona he adopts with workmen in his house and wonders if it's a performance and if it is a performance is it by him, or the workman or both of them. He considers how for many men adult life becomes a process of refusing to demonstrate - and then refusing to experience - joy. As someone asked of him, 'what happened to these men'?</p><p><br></p><p>The article that the episode is titled after is here - we discuss it in the show: <a href=\"https://www.harpersbazaar.com/culture/features/a27259689/toxic-masculinity-male-friendships-emotional-labor-men-rely-on-women/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">“Men have no friends and women carry the burden”</a></p><p><br></p><p><a href=\"https://amzn.to/3vLq7QU\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Max's book is available now.</a></p>","author_name":"brucedaisley.com"}