{"version":"1.0","type":"rich","provider_name":"Acast","provider_url":"https://acast.com","height":250,"width":700,"html":"<iframe src=\"https://embed.acast.com/$/98ddd5a0-c00b-4f80-9a5b-d4584d0040ac/69738b1835a98abf7c5d4e5c?\" frameBorder=\"0\" width=\"700\" height=\"250\"></iframe>","title":"Ashley James: You’re a bimbo! Mumsy! Bossy! How we shrink confidence out of girls","thumbnail_width":200,"thumbnail_height":200,"thumbnail_url":"https://open-images.acast.com/shows/62260956118c54704394e034/1770568722292-14b56b03-be4c-48ab-8e79-4bdd347ca423.jpeg?height=200","description":"<p>You’re a bimbo. A nag. Too mumsy. Too bossy. Ever had any of those labels put on you? Far from harmless words, Ashley James is clear they all work to shrink women and girls.</p><p><br></p><p>In this chat with Fearne, Ashley recalls her first experiences of street harassment, and the way she victim blamed herself.</p><p><br></p><p>They also explore the shame that keeps women silent about their altered bodies after giving birth; Ashley talks about her own post-partum body, including the reality of piles, prolapse, and vaginismus.</p><p><br></p><p>Wondering if marriage is right for you? Ashley runs through her pros and cons. Plus, are we still allowed to watch and enjoy wildly problematic films like Grease...?</p><p><br></p><p>Ashley’s book, Bimbo, is out on February 12th.</p><p><br></p><p>If you liked this episode of Happy Place, you might also like:</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p><a href=\"https://pod.fo/e/166b8a\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Gabor Maté</a></p><p>&nbsp;</p><p><a href=\"https://pod.fo/e/38069e\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Louise Thompson</a></p><p>&nbsp;</p><p><a href=\"https://pod.fo/e/f257b\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Jane Goodall</a></p>","author_name":"Fearne Cotton"}