{"version":"1.0","type":"rich","provider_name":"Acast","provider_url":"https://acast.com","height":250,"width":700,"html":"<iframe src=\"https://embed.acast.com/$/98ddd5a0-c00b-4f80-9a5b-d4584d0040ac/67499dada8c6690faa46357c?\" frameBorder=\"0\" width=\"700\" height=\"250\"></iframe>","title":"Olly Alexander: “I couldn’t accept my identity” Queer joy and mental distress co-exist ","thumbnail_width":200,"thumbnail_height":200,"thumbnail_url":"https://open-images.acast.com/shows/62260956118c54704394e034/1733515360203-45af5666-2e96-43c3-8580-121b2a388804.jpeg?height=200","description":"<p>There should be no shame in being who you are. Musician and actor Olly Alexander has felt first hand how grappling with your identity can lead to poor mental health.</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>In this chat with Fearne, Olly explains why he feels there’s such a high level of mental distress in the queer community, and how acting in It’s A Sin helped him unpack his own lived experience.</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>Both Fearne and Olly share their experiences of poor body image, wondering if bulimia felt like a helpful tool to regain control in an intimidating world. How can you go from disliking your body to recognising the brilliant things it can do for you?</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>Plus, how to let yourself off the hook when you’ve messed up at work or in a social situation, and what to do when you don’t feel you’ve ‘achieved’ enough to be of value...</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>Olly’s solo album, Polari, is out in February.</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>CONTENT WARNING: This episode contains frank chat about suicide, self-harm, and bulimia, so take care while listening.</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>If you liked this episode of Happy Place, you might also like:</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p><a href=\"https://pod.fo/e/279633\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Perrie Edwards</a></p><p>&nbsp;</p><p><a href=\"https://pod.fo/e/238d13\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Rebel Wilson</a></p><p>&nbsp;</p><p><a href=\"https://pod.fo/e/25cf34\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">YungBlud</a></p>","author_name":"Fearne Cotton"}