{"version":"1.0","type":"rich","provider_name":"Acast","provider_url":"https://acast.com","height":250,"width":700,"html":"<iframe src=\"https://embed.acast.com/$/9475d117-fcd4-4915-a6f3-923941e7aa0d/63eba07999435400117bc587?\" frameBorder=\"0\" width=\"700\" height=\"250\"></iframe>","title":"Inside the Facebook group vetting London men","thumbnail_width":200,"thumbnail_height":200,"thumbnail_url":"https://open-images.acast.com/shows/61ba05fc1a8cbed4343cf0e6/5883ea1e-0ebe-4d27-9746-2bf0605b19e6.jpg?height=200","description":"<p>The Evening Standard’s Maddy Mussen takes us inside the ‘Are We Dating the Same Guy’ London Facebook group where women share dating notes on men - with more than 20,000 members and counting.&nbsp;</p><p><br></p><p>The main aim is to vet a man you’re interested in, even before you meet him. Flag toxic behaviour, identify potential ‘players’ and more than anything, keep women safe.&nbsp;</p><p><br></p><p>But, can all the information be trusted? And is it <em>only</em> being used for good?&nbsp;</p><p><br></p><p>One of the group’s members, ‘Flossie’ - not her real name -&nbsp;tells us her story. Why she joined, her concerns and what London's dating scene is currently like…</p>","author_name":"The Evening Standard"}