{"version":"1.0","type":"rich","provider_name":"Acast","provider_url":"https://acast.com","height":250,"width":700,"html":"<iframe src=\"https://embed.acast.com/$/6ae8faaf375d48fb43282b1e/6ae8fabf4ca6aa8604c69642?\" frameBorder=\"0\" width=\"700\" height=\"250\"></iframe>","title":"On Cornell: How Can We Raise Boys Who Care About Consent?","thumbnail_width":200,"thumbnail_height":200,"thumbnail_url":"https://open-images.acast.com/shows/6ae8faaf375d48fb43282b1e/fb51c008954b462ed4efc8f696a9b6e9.jpg?height=200","description":"<h3><strong>You're listening to the Burnt Toast Podcast! I'm Virginia Sole-Smith and today my conversation is with health teacher and author </strong>Christopher Pepper.</h3><h2>Christopher is joining me to talk about the Cornell 7 case and why too many boys are not learning about bodies, consent and control.</h2><p>This is a hard conversation. Content warning if any of that sounds not helpful to you today, but it is an important one, and Christopher has lots of strategies and scripts to help.</p><h1>On Indulgence Gospel:</h1><h3>Corinne and I will be talking about what men <i>aren't</i> doing—specifically why they aren't posting more about the Cornell 7 case online.</h3><p><strong>Indulgence Gospel segments are for paid subscribers, who also get transcripts and commenting privileges. Don't miss out —</strong><a href=\"https://www.patreon.com/virginiasolesmith/join\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><strong> join us here!</strong></a></p><ul><li><strong>FREE LISTENERS</strong> can find this episode on <a href=\"https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-burnt-toast-podcast/id1598931199\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Apple</a>, <a href=\"https://open.spotify.com/show/7rwnBtbLQynBRWRsTfVppw\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Spotify</a>, <a href=\"https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLrUcnA0HFiXwdvLegbV0optrR6OE45t20\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">YouTube</a> or <a href=\"https://burnt-toast-podcast.simplecast.com/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">the podcast player of your choice</a>.</li><li><strong>PAID SUBSCRIBERS</strong> can listen right here on Patreon, or <a href=\"https://www.patreon.com/posts/140655975\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">add your member-only feed to the podcast player of your choice</a>. Indulgence Gospel starts at the timestamp tk. You can find an AI-generated transcript of this segment if you’re following us on <a href=\"https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-burnt-toast-podcast/id1598931199\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Apple</a> or <a href=\"https://open.spotify.com/show/7rwnBtbLQynBRWRsTfVppw\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Spotify</a>!</li></ul><h3>Meet today's guest!</h3><p><a href=\"https://www.mrhealthteacher.com/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><u>Christopher Pepper</u></a> is an award-winning health teacher whose lesson plans are used in schools around the globe. He’s been an educator for more than two decades, and currently teaches 9th grade health education in Los Altos, California.&nbsp;</p><p>He is the co-author of the bestselling book <a href=\"https://splitrockbooks.com/book/9781523527311\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><i><u>Talk to Your Boys: 16 Conversations to Help Tweens and Teens Grow into Confident, Caring Young Men</u></i></a>, and also writes the popular newsletter <a href=\"https://www.teenhealthtoday.com/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><u>Teen Health Today</u></a>.</p><p>I first met Christopher while reporting <i>Fat Talk</i>. He's quoted frequently in my chapter on diet culture in schools. We are going to talk about diet culture today, and specifically how diet culture trends like looksmaxxing and bodybuilding are impacting boys.</p><h1>BUTTER &amp; LINKS</h1><p><strong>Virginia's Butter</strong>: Joining your school's PTA and serving on their equity, diversity, and inclusion committee.</p><p><strong>Christopher's Butter</strong>: Joining a men's group, like <a href=\"https://everforwardclub.org/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Ever Forward Club</a> or <a href=\"https://www.nextgenmen.ca/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Next Gen Men</a>.</p><p><a href=\"https://splitrockbooks.com/book/9781523527311\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><i>Talk to Your Boys: 16 Conversations to Help Tweens and Teens Grow into Confident, Caring Young Men</i></a> by Christopher Pepper, Joanna Schroeder</p><p>Christopher Pepper: <a href=\"https://open.substack.com/pub/teenhealthtoday/p/6-powerful-things-we-can-do-to-stop?r=h6db&amp;utm_campaign=post-expanded-share&amp;utm_medium=post%20viewer\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Channel Your Rage Into Action Against Rape</a> (Substack)</p><p><i>NYT</i>: \"<a href=\"https://www.nytimes.com/2019/10/12/opinion/sunday/white-supremacist-recruitment.html?unlocked_article_code=1.LlE.4t45.HxKFmk7vR2_d&amp;smid=url-share\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Racists Are Recruiting: Watch Your White Sons</a>\" by Joanna Schroeder</p><p>Kate Manne: <a href=\"https://katemanne.substack.com/p/they-didnt-want-consent?utm_source=post-email-title&amp;publication_id=950263&amp;post_id=219090886&amp;utm_campaign=email-post-title&amp;isFreemail=false&amp;r=r1mn&amp;triedRedirect=true&amp;utm_medium=email\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">They Didn’t Want Consent</a> (Substack)</p><p>https://www.patreon.com/virginiasolesmith/posts/how-do-we-raise-173458592</p>\n<p><p><strong>EPISODE CREDITS</strong></p><p>Co-hosts: <a href=\"https://patreon.com/virginiasolesmith\" target=\"_blank\">Virginia Sole-Smith </a>and <a href=\"https://www.patreon.com/cw/BigUndies\" target=\"_blank\">Corinne Fay</a>. </p><p>Producer: <a href=\"https://www.instagram.com/theblondemule/\"> Kim Baldwin</a>. </p><p>Logo design: <a href=\"http://www.deannalowedesign.com/\">Deanna Lowe</a>.</p><p>Theme Song: <a href=\"https://www.instagram.com/ilovefarideh/?hl=en\">Farideh</a>.</p><p>Video Editor: <a href=\"melittlemefoundation.org.\" target=\"_blank\">Elizabeth Ayiku</a></p><p>Audio Engineer: <a href=\"http://www.tommyharron.com/\">Tommy Harron</a></p><p><strong>Follow us on social! </strong></p><p>Virginia is on Instagram and Threads as<a href=\"https://www.instagram.com/v_solesmith/\"> @v_solesmith</a> and on Bluesky at<a href=\"https://bsky.app/profile/virginiasolesmith.bsky.social\"> @virginiasolesmith</a>.  </p><p>Corinne is on Instagram at<a href=\"https://www.instagram.com/selfiefay/\"> @selfiefay</a>, on Bluesky at<a href=\"https://bsky.app/profile/corinnefay.bsky.social\"> @corinnefay</a> and on Patreon at<a href=\"https://www.patreon.com/cw/BigUndies\"> Big Undies.</a></p><p>Support the <a href=\"https://www.instagram.com/melittlemefoundation/\">Me Little Me Foundation</a>, a virtual food pantry supporting multiply marginalized folks recovering from eating disorders.</p><p><i><strong>Thanks for listening and supporting anti-diet, body liberation journalism! </strong></i></p></p>","author_name":"Virginia Sole-Smith & Corinne Fay"}