{"version":"1.0","type":"rich","provider_name":"Acast","provider_url":"https://acast.com","height":250,"width":700,"html":"<iframe src=\"https://embed.acast.com/$/6ac3c2599610f265be0022ef/6ac3c3a87c84f5d4dd51c1f0?\" frameBorder=\"0\" width=\"700\" height=\"250\"></iframe>","title":"Why I Regret Raising My Kids Mormon (HONEST mother/daughter discussion)","thumbnail_width":200,"thumbnail_height":200,"thumbnail_url":"https://open-images.acast.com/shows/6ac3c2599610f265be0022ef/374c855b4c070da7801faaea5de8e4de.jpeg?height=200","description":"<p>A Happy Mother’s Day to everyone tuning in! This is an honest conversation between a mother and daughter about the crippling expectations placed on mothers in high control groups. Lisa explains her experience growing up in Mormonism which shaped her view of her options after high school and directly led her to becoming a young mother leaving her dreams behind. Shelise chimes in about what she remembers the messaging being as a young girl in Mormonism and explains the pros and cons of raising a child outside of a high demand religion.</p><p><br></p><p><a href=\"https://youtu.be/3qlNxDPZItk\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Click here to watch on YouTube</a></p><p><br></p><p>Connect with Lisa!</p><p>Business IG: @spiritofottertail <a href=\"https://www.instagram.com/spiritofottertail?igsh=MWFtdTdodHZ5aDFiOQ==\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">https://www.instagram.com/spiritofottertail?igsh=MWFtdTdodHZ5aDFiOQ==</a></p><p><br></p><p>Take back your personal data with Incogni! Use code SHELISE at <a href=\"https://incogni.com/shelise\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">https://incogni.com/shelise </a>and get 60% off an annual plan.</p><p><br></p><p>Subscribe to our<a href=\"https://www.youtube.com/@CultstoConsciousnessClip\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\"> C2C \"CLIPS\" Channel!</a></p><p><br></p><p>Support C2C - Any donations are welcome and appreciated to support the making of this podcast.</p><p><a href=\"https://cults-to-consciousness-shop.fourthwall.com/en-usd\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Find our FULL (uncensored) merch store here!</a></p><p>Patreon <a href=\"https://www.patreon.com/cultstoconsciousness\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">https://www.patreon.com/cultstoconsciousness</a></p><p>Venmo @sheliseann</p><p><br></p><p>Find us on Social media!</p><p>Instagram <a href=\"https://www.instagram.com/cultstoconsciousness\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">@cultstoconsciousness</a>&nbsp;</p><p>Host Instagram <a href=\"https://www.instagram.com/sheliseann/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">@sheliseann&nbsp;</a></p><p>Co Producer / Host <a href=\"https://www.instagram.com/jonathan.rosales_\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">@jonathan.rosales_&nbsp;</a></p><p>TikTok <a href=\"http://cults.to.consciousness\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">@cults.to.consciousness&nbsp;</a></p><p>Twitter <a href=\"https://twitter.com/cultstocon\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">@cultstocon</a>&nbsp;</p><p><br></p><p>**Disclaimer: Thanks for joining us at Cults to Consciousness. This storytelling podcast is meant to be for entertainment purposes only and does not substitute for medical advice. We may discuss triggering topics and we ask that you make your personal mental health a priority. Lastly, the opinions of our guests do not necessarily reflect the opinions of the host.**</p><p><br></p><p>Chapter Marks</p><p>000:00:00 Intro</p><p>00:03:47 Shelise's Special Announcement...</p><p>00:04:25 Lisa's early years attending Young Womens</p><p>00:05:28 The only option for a woman was to be a wife and mother</p><p>00:12:14 What the crossroads of career vs marriage was like for Lisa</p><p>00:16:44 Are Utah Mormons different than Mormons from other states?</p><p>00:21:25 The pitfalls of the church pressuring young people to get married</p><p>00:28:37 Parenting is already hard enough-- what the extra layer of guilt &amp; shame was like for Lisa</p><p>00:31:35 The discusses her own break downs</p><p>00:34:51 The chaos of Lisa getting the chiIdren ready for church, and to show up presenting perfect</p><p>00:39:50 The pressures of a Mormon mom when it comes to their children's actions</p><p>00:44:06 Lisa's thoughts on sending her kids on a Mormon Mission</p><p>00:47:01 Things that made being a parent difficult while Mormon</p><p>00:52:17 Lisa's regrets as a Mormon mom</p><p>00:54:25 Shelise opens up about her beliefs and raising chiIdren in a religious state</p><p>01:04:14 Lisa's thoughts on the after life</p><p>01:05:47 What is the cost of Mormon salvation?</p><p>01:12:12 How Lisa feels about the less strict parenting rules the church has now</p><p>01:18:20 Final thoughts</p><p>01:26:35 Linda, listen</p><p>See Privacy Policy at <a href=\"https://art19.com/privacy\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">https://art19.com/privacy</a> and California Privacy Notice at <a href=\"https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info</a>.</p>","author_name":"Shelise Ann Sola, Jonathan C Rosales"}