{"version":"1.0","type":"rich","provider_name":"Acast","provider_url":"https://acast.com","height":250,"width":700,"html":"<iframe src=\"https://embed.acast.com/$/6ac3c2599610f265be0022ef/6ac3c38b22e4cb85bd375dbe?\" frameBorder=\"0\" width=\"700\" height=\"250\"></iframe>","title":"My Polygamous Father Exploited Religious AUB Rules to Terrorize Us","thumbnail_width":200,"thumbnail_height":200,"thumbnail_url":"https://open-images.acast.com/shows/6ac3c2599610f265be0022ef/1dccd27e82bd43eaafa314ee5b30fccb.jpeg?height=200","description":"<p>Isolated in the Apostolic United Brethren, Janae’s father went unchecked when exploiting the nature of the religious group. With 4 wives and over a dozen children, he misused his power to control them all. “Life lessons” laced in traumatic experiences would leave the girls feeling helpless, scared and vulnerable without him, even when he was the true source of danger. Essentially acting as a cult leader within an already restrictive cult, Janae’s father took advantage of the system which had lasting negative effects.&nbsp;</p><p><a href=\"https://youtu.be/3F5XiY9nQJs\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Click here to watch on YouTube</a></p><p><br></p><p>Find and Support Janae!</p><p>IG: <a href=\"https://www.instagram.com/janae.dubose\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">@janaedubose</a>&nbsp;&nbsp;</p><p>Facebook: Janae DuBose&nbsp;</p><p>Book:&nbsp; <a href=\"https://amzn.to/3ZEkmn8\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">“In The Cult Next Door”</a></p><p><br></p><p>Subscribe to our<a href=\"https://www.youtube.com/@CultstoConsciousnessClip\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\"> C2C \"CLIPS\" Channel!</a></p><p><br></p><p>Support C2C - Any donations are welcome and appreciated to support the making of this podcast.</p><p><a href=\"https://cults-to-consciousness-shop.fourthwall.com/en-usd\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Find our FULL (uncensored) merch store here!</a></p><p>Patreon <a href=\"https://www.patreon.com/cultstoconsciousness\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">https://www.patreon.com/cultstoconsciousness</a></p><p>Venmo @sheliseann</p><p><br></p><p>Find us on Social media!</p><p>Instagram <a href=\"https://www.instagram.com/cultstoconsciousness\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">@cultstoconsciousness</a>&nbsp;</p><p>Host Instagram <a href=\"https://www.instagram.com/sheliseann/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">@sheliseann&nbsp;</a></p><p>Co Producer / Host <a href=\"https://www.instagram.com/jonathan.rosales_\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">@jonathan.rosales_&nbsp;</a></p><p>TikTok <a href=\"http://cults.to.consciousness\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">@cults.to.consciousness&nbsp;</a></p><p>Twitter <a href=\"https://twitter.com/cultstocon\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">@cultstocon</a>&nbsp;</p><p><br></p><p>**Disclaimer: Thanks for joining us at Cults to Consciousness. This storytelling podcast is meant to be for entertainment purposes only and does not substitute for medical advice. We may discuss triggering topics and we ask that you make your personal mental health a priority. Lastly, the opinions of our guests do not necessarily reflect the opinions of the host.**</p><p><br></p><p>Chapter Marks</p><p>00:00:00 intro</p><p>00:04:07 How the AUB split from the mainstream LDS church</p><p>00:08:43 Hierarchy in the church and how Janae’s father affected their family's place</p><p>00:10:34 What Janae's father was like and how he got involved with the AUB</p><p>00:13:18 How Janae's father exploited AUB rules for his benefit</p><p>00:14:48 CW: CA Janae's father's man*pulation and ab*se tactics</p><p>00:25:31 Janae's mom's reaction to her chiIdren's ab*se and how the AUB predisposed her to marrying Janae's father</p><p>00:30:03 CW: CSA Janae's father's openness about his pred*tory behavior</p><p>00:33:05 How Janae's father's lack of self awareness led to a projection of his own feelings and issues</p><p>00:35:20 The use of other religious beliefs in the household</p><p>00:37:07 CW: SA How their father's ab*se affected the boys and their relationships with their sisters</p><p>00:40:06 The cycle of ab*se (or lack thereof)</p><p>00:41:43 The constant vulnerability in the house</p><p>00:43:22 Inability to understand AUB</p><p>00:46:57 Janae’s feelings on being a plural wife&nbsp;</p><p>00:48:54 Janae's mother's search for answers led them to mainstream Mormonism</p><p>00:56:03 CW: r*pe - Janae’s past left her vulnerable after escaping&nbsp;</p><p>01:01:41 Learning to stand in your power as a woman&nbsp;</p><p>01:04:13 How people from ab*sive situations can be targets for other ab*sers in the future</p><p>01:08:47 Finding safety in yourself and life after a cult</p><p>01:16:16 What makes Janae happy today</p><p>01:17:50 Linda, listen</p><p>See Privacy Policy at <a href=\"https://art19.com/privacy\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">https://art19.com/privacy</a> and California Privacy Notice at <a href=\"https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info</a>.</p>","author_name":"Shelise Ann Sola, Jonathan C Rosales"}