{"version":"1.0","type":"rich","provider_name":"Acast","provider_url":"https://acast.com","height":250,"width":700,"html":"<iframe src=\"https://embed.acast.com/$/6ab0fba6119942cbe118752f/6ab0fbb046fd9745eaa6fe61?\" frameBorder=\"0\" width=\"700\" height=\"250\"></iframe>","title":"Agony Aunties: Why Do I Keep Sabotaging Myself?","thumbnail_width":200,"thumbnail_height":200,"thumbnail_url":"https://open-images.acast.com/shows/6ab0fba6119942cbe118752f/59a36ff9fda1202f4de06c929d8d596f.jpg?height=200","description":"<p>This week, the Agony Aunties answer a question that so many of us will recognise: why is it so hard to make the changes we desperately want to make? From skipping the exercise class you've already paid for to using food, smoking or spending as a way to cope, Julia, Sophie and Emily explore the hidden roots of self-sabotage, shame and the belief that we're incapable of change. Together, they discuss how our childhood experiences shape our sense of agency, why self-compassion is the key to breaking old patterns, and practical ways to begin building a kinder relationship with yourself—one small step at a time.</p>\n<p><br></p>\n<p><strong>Resources mentioned:</strong></p>\n<ul>\n  <li>Learn more about Jan Winhall's work on attachment, trauma and the nervous system: <a href=\"https://janwinhall.com/\">https://janwinhall.com</a></li>\n</ul>\n<p>\t•\t\t•\tFind out more about Internal Family Systems (IFS): <a href=\"https://ifs-institute.com/\">https://ifs-institute.com</a></p><p> </p><p>Learn more about your ad choices. Visit <a href=\"https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices\">podcastchoices.com/adchoices</a></p>","author_name":"The Times"}