{"version":"1.0","type":"rich","provider_name":"Acast","provider_url":"https://acast.com","height":250,"width":700,"html":"<iframe src=\"https://embed.acast.com/$/6a8258374394d6874be9efce/6aa72c1d1563582c05b31c7b?\" frameBorder=\"0\" width=\"700\" height=\"250\"></iframe>","title":"1.3 Was I Masking?","description":"<p>What if you got so good at being “normal” (or acting neurotypical) that you convinced yourself—and everyone around you—that there was nothing different about you at all?</p><p><br></p><p>In Episode 3 of <em>Late to the Spectrum</em>, we explore the idea of masking and whether much of Geoff's life has been spent learning how to fit in, perform, and appear comfortable—even when doing so came at a significant cost.</p><p><br></p><p>From public speaking and small talk to eye contact, social rules, and the difference between public Geoff and private Geoff, he starts asking a bigger question:</p><p><strong>What did masking cost me?</strong></p><p><br></p><p>This isn't about having all the answers. He's still figuring out what was masking, what was simply personality, and what happens when you finally become aware of the difference.</p><p><br></p><p>And maybe the questions Geoff is asking about <em>his </em>life will get you thinking about <em>yours</em>.</p><p><br></p><p><strong>If something in this episode resonates with you—or if you have questions, thoughts, feedback, a story to share, or even disagree with something Geoff says—send an email to </strong><a href=\"mailto:podcast@geoffkullman.com\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\"><strong>podcast@geoffkullman.com</strong></a><strong>. He'd love to hear from you.</strong></p><p><br></p><p>Because sometimes the most important question isn't <em>“Can I do this?”</em></p><p>It's <strong>“What does it cost me?”</strong></p>","author_name":"Geoff Kullman"}