There are people in your life who will be disappointed when you change.
Not necessarily because your change is wrong.
Sometimes simply because the new version of you is less convenient for them.
In this episode of Seen. Not Defined., Vikki explores what happens when growth disrupts the roles we have quietly built inside relationships.
The reliable one.
The strong one.
The easy-going one.
The person who always says yes.
What happens when you stop performing the version of yourself everybody has grown used to?
From boundaries and ambition to changing priorities, relationships and identity, this episode looks at the difference between being considerate of the people we love and allowing their comfort to become a limit on who we are allowed to become.
Because somebody can be disappointed by your decision without your decision being wrong.
And sometimes what feels like conflict is simply adjustment.
You cannot build an identity by committee.
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