{"version":"1.0","type":"rich","provider_name":"Acast","provider_url":"https://acast.com","height":250,"width":700,"html":"<iframe src=\"https://embed.acast.com/$/6a28fef5262000e4756a83cc/6a28ff17427484b4a476523f?\" frameBorder=\"0\" width=\"700\" height=\"250\"></iframe>","title":"How Do I Know What Kind of Help I Need?","thumbnail_width":200,"thumbnail_height":200,"thumbnail_url":"https://open-images.acast.com/shows/6a28fef5262000e4756a83cc/c9cee540018a7df633ee4b5cfde1f63d.jpg?height=200","description":"<p>What if the hardest part of getting help isn't the therapy itself — it's knowing where to start?</p><p>In Part 2 of our conversation with counsellor and psychotherapist John Cuturilo, we go deeper into one of the most common questions people carry about mental health: <em>How do I know what kind of support is right for me — and how do I know if it's actually working?</em></p><p>Whether you've been in therapy for years or haven't taken that first step yet, this episode gives you the tools, language, and confidence to approach mental health support differently.</p><p><strong>In this episode:</strong></p><ul><li>Why you don't need a diagnosis to justify seeking help</li><li>How to assess the right level of support — from counsellors and psychologists to social workers and psychiatrists</li><li>The \"grey areas\" of mental health — when something feels wrong but you can't name it</li><li>How long therapy typically takes, and what ongoing vs time-limited support looks like</li><li>Why culture and personal background must be part of the therapeutic conversation</li><li>How to choose the right therapist — and the red flags that should make you walk away</li><li>What goal-oriented therapy actually looks like in practice</li></ul><p>John also shares a personal reflection — a reminder that what we normalise isn't always healthy, and that recognising that can be the beginning of real change.</p><p><em>\"Don't think that you're weak or of less value because you need help. We're all human. It's okay to seek help.\" — John Cuturilo</em></p><p>🎙️ <strong>Missed Part 1?</strong> <a href=\"https://shows.acast.com/stories-and-stanza/episodes/6a28ff0874e72c6295ce8c83\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Start here</a></p><p><strong>About John Cuturilo</strong> John is a counsellor, writer, and podcast host based in Melbourne, Australia, specialising in complex trauma and relational matters. He integrates lived experience with evidence-based practice — aiming to be versatile, educative, empowering, and relatable. 🔗 <a href=\"https://www.yourlistener.com.au\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">www.yourlistener.com.au</a></p><p><strong>About Stories and Stanza</strong> <em>Stories and Stanza</em> charts in the Mental Health top charts across the US, UK, and Canada. We run two series: <em>Between the Lines</em> — conversations with writers and creators — and <em>Fail With Me</em> — honest dialogues about mental health, resilience, and life's challenges. Hosted by Abhra Pal.</p><p>📌 <strong>Follow us:</strong> <a href=\"https://www.youtube.com/@storiesandstanza\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">YouTube</a> · <a href=\"https://www.facebook.com/storiesandstanza/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Facebook</a> · <a href=\"https://www.instagram.com/storiesandstanza/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Instagram</a> · <a href=\"https://x.com/storiesnstanza\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">X</a> · <a href=\"https://wa.openinapp.link/wjcwe\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">WhatsApp</a></p><p>🎧 <strong>Listen:</strong> <a href=\"https://spotify.openinapp.co/storiesandstanza\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Spotify</a> · <a href=\"https://apple.openinapp.link/u3ui2\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Apple Podcasts</a> · <a href=\"https://openinapp.link/ion0e\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Substack</a></p><p>☕ <strong>Support the show:</strong> <a href=\"https://ko-fi.com/storiesandstanza\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Buy me a coffee</a></p><p>🛠️ <strong>Tools we love:</strong> <a href=\"https://vidiq.com/storiesandstanza\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">vidIQ</a> · <a href=\"https://get.descript.com/stories-and-stanza\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Descript</a></p><p><strong>#MentalHealth #Therapy #Counselling #FailWithMe #StoriesAndStanza #MentalHealthPodcast #TherapyTips #HowToFindATherapist #ComplexTrauma #GoalOrientedTherapy #TraumaRecovery #Psychology #Wellness #SelfCare #MentalHealthAwareness #JohnCuturilo #AbhraPal #MelbournePodcast</strong></p>","author_name":"Abhra Pal"}