{"version":"1.0","type":"rich","provider_name":"Acast","provider_url":"https://acast.com","height":250,"width":700,"html":"<iframe src=\"https://embed.acast.com/$/6a18c72069630795d8cfed98/6a3d527589bd8728406e594a?\" frameBorder=\"0\" width=\"700\" height=\"250\"></iframe>","title":"A Nice Day For A Wedding","thumbnail_width":200,"thumbnail_height":200,"thumbnail_url":"https://open-images.acast.com/shows/6a18c72069630795d8cfed98/1782402025337-0cd698bf-1628-42a1-9d8d-0678037e7cf4.jpeg?height=200","description":"<h3><strong>Overview</strong></h3><p>In this episode, Paul Maleary sits down with retired judge and barrister HHJ Nigel Lithman KC to discuss Lithman’s personal background, legal career, and his life after making Aliyah (moving to Israel). The conversation spans political commentary on both UK and Israeli leadership, cultural observations of Israeli society, and reflections on Jewish traditions .</p><p><br></p><p><br></p><p><br></p><h3><strong>Key Discussion Points</strong></h3><ul><li><strong>Nigel Lithman’s Legal Career:</strong> Lithman reflects on what motivated him to enter the law, noting that after a somewhat lazy academic start and family upheavals, he pursued an external London law degree . He explains that while Jewish cultural roots often emphasize fairness, his motivation to become a judge later in life was driven by a desire to introduce kindness, equality, and decency into the courtroom . He highlights a 40-year career that included participating in roughly 100 murder trials before taking Silk (becoming a QC) in 1997.</li></ul><p><br></p><p><br></p><p><br></p><ul><li><strong>Political Commentary (UK &amp; US):</strong> Lithman offers sharp criticisms of former UK Prime Minister Keir Starmer, recalling a personal anecdote from the Old Bailey where he found Starmer to be a \"non-entity\" focused strictly on his future career He critiques Starmer’s leadership, U-turns, cabinet choices (mentioning David Lammy), and unconditional recognition of a Palestinian state while hostages were still held . He also briefly addresses potential political directions under Andy Burnham and Kemi Badenoch, and comments on Donald Trump's shifting, unpredictable stances regarding Israel and Iran.</li></ul><p><br></p><p><br></p><p><br></p><ul><li><strong>Life and Culture in Israel:</strong> Echoing a phrase from a local barista, Lithman repeatedly notes that \"Israel is complicated\" but praises its vibrant economy, pointing out that the shekel remains highly resilient. He describes Israel as a massive cultural melting pot comprising Muslims, Druze, Christians, and Jews from all geographic backgrounds . He contrasts the modern reality of Israeli life against external \"gaslighting\" media narratives that label it a colonizing state .</li></ul><p><br></p><p><br></p><p><br></p><ul><li><strong>Traditional Jewish Weddings vs. Reality:</strong> Lithman details his recent experience attending an outdoor wedding at a <em>moshav</em> (a cooperative agricultural community) He breaks down the deep historical symbolism of Jewish wedding traditions, such as the bride walking seven circuits around the groom, the lifting of the veil (originating from the Biblical story of Jacob being tricked into marrying Leah instead of Rachel), and the stomping of the glass to remember the destruction of the temples in Jerusalem .</li></ul><p><br></p><p><br></p><p><br></p><ul><li><strong>Art, Film, and Historical Memory:</strong> The hosts discuss the consumption of media in Israel, with Lithman recalling his amusing experience watching <em>E.T.</em> in an Israeli cinema in the 1980s . They touch upon the documentary <em>The Commandant's Shadow</em> (detailing Rudolf Höss’s daughter) and discuss how historical atrocities like the Holocaust are processed by Israelis who are simultaneously dealing with modern conflicts . Lithman emphasizes that the foundational ethos of Israel remains a firm commitment to \"leave no one behind\" .</li></ul><blockquote><a href=\"https://www.amazon.co.uk/Nothing-Like-Truth-Tribulations-Criminal/dp/1913532720/ref=sr_1_1?adgrpid=184238470777&amp;dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.1ObjFwcREFpM8qqhgiAAzDMB7zdq3qBU7O_VhwTf0AxsIfZGNggQHvBNsYdiw0ugxjPMiN8YsFlSBG4UWeJFav-H55Sv3qhMUWfbooe-j_AB059CcZoCg9alh8UOESiFg5m-9WJvC0Jhqeu2Lqol3vAdzZ-V-K-R-r-syNXsmKprxFdCrAdMe94BTyeTqBh_._BqwZZQVX-pZlHG7NXeuXXTkG0nDdJeZGN_LJSuBA2M&amp;dib_tag=se&amp;gad_source=1&amp;hvadid=793438853464&amp;hvdev=c&amp;hvexpln=0&amp;hvlocphy=9241822&amp;hvnetw=g&amp;hvocijid=4030137533968532281--&amp;hvqmt=e&amp;hvrand=4030137533968532281&amp;hvtargid=kwd-1301953489569&amp;hydadcr=24429_2435372_2092&amp;keywords=nothing+like+the+truth&amp;mcid=98cc0aa3ccbc3d7c9a240a930dec6a21&amp;qid=1782403554&amp;sr=8-1\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\"><strong>Book Promotion:</strong> At the close of the episode, Maleary promotes Lithman's book, <em>Nothing Like the Truth</em>, which is available on Amazon</a></blockquote>","author_name":"Paul Maleary"}