{"version":"1.0","type":"rich","provider_name":"Acast","provider_url":"https://acast.com","height":250,"width":700,"html":"<iframe src=\"https://embed.acast.com/$/69fd5988051b78474e08cab9/6ac461237c84f5d4dd8f4e08?\" frameBorder=\"0\" width=\"700\" height=\"250\"></iframe>","title":"24. The Roommate Phase After Kids with Kim Pearce, Founder of Peek","description":"<p>Long-term relationships change. Add careers, children, exhaustion and the relentless logistics of everyday life, and it can become surprisingly easy for two people who love each other to start feeling more like teammates than partners.</p><p>Kim Pearce knows that experience personally. After navigating pregnancy, postpartum and the shifting dynamics of intimacy in her own relationship, a late-night conversation with her partner sparked an idea: what if reconnecting didn’t have to begin with one big, awkward conversation?</p><p>That idea became Peak, an app designed to help couples rediscover connection, playfulness and intimacy in a way that feels approachable and low pressure.</p><p>Kim joins Erin for an open and refreshingly honest conversation about long-term relationships, motherhood, vulnerability and what it really takes to keep choosing each other as life changes around you. It’s a conversation that makes space for the messy middle, where relationships aren’t broken and everything isn’t effortless, but connection still deserves attention.</p><p>In this episode she shares:</p><ul><li>How becoming parents can change intimacy and connection in a long-term relationship</li><li>Why Kim created Peak after experiencing the “roommate phase” in her own relationship</li><li>Why it can feel so difficult to tell your partner what you want or need</li><li>The fear of rejection in long-term relationships and how it can create more distance over time</li><li>Why connection doesn’t have to mean elaborate date nights or finding hours of uninterrupted time</li><li>What Kim has learned from speaking with couples about the things they struggle to say to each other</li><li>How motherhood and intimacy are often discussed in extremes, and what gets missed in the middle</li><li>Why maintaining a strong relationship requires intention, rather than expecting connection to happen naturally</li></ul><p><br></p><p><strong><u>Key Quotes</u></strong></p><p><br></p><p>“Somebody always needs to go first.”</p><p><br></p><p>“The more you are uncomfortable, the more comfortable you feel being uncomfortable.”</p><p><br></p><p>“You have to prioritise it. You have to be intentional about it.”</p><p><br></p><p> “People don’t plan around how they want to sustain their intimacy long term.”</p><p> “Like all living things, it needs a water source, it needs sunlight, it needs love and attention, and it goes through different seasons.”</p><p><br></p><p><strong><u>More about Peek</u></strong></p><p><br></p><p><strong>Explore Peek:</strong> <a href=\"https://www.getpeek.io/?utm_source=chatgpt.com\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">The Peek App website</a></p><p>Follow Peek on <a href=\"https://www.instagram.com/get.peek/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Instagram</a></p><p><br></p><p><strong>You can get involved with the podcast online</strong></p><p><br></p><p>Website <a href=\"https://herethereeverywhere.com.au/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">https://herethereeverywhere.com.au/</a></p><p>Instagram <a href=\"https://www.instagram.com/here_there_everywhere_aus/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">https://www.instagram.com/here_there_everywhere_aus/</a></p><p>FB group <a href=\"https://www.facebook.com/share/g/1CWFAe3LkU/?mibextid=wwXIfr\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">https://www.facebook.com/share/g/1CWFAe3LkU/?mibextid=wwXIfr</a></p>","author_name":"Erin Hughes"}