We all like to think we’re “good planners.” But at what point does planning become control… and control become fear? In our very first episode, we’re unpacking the tension between holding it all together and letting things unfold. We talk about what it means to feel in control, why it’s so hard to let go, and whether surrender is actually freedom—or just another form of chaos. Not surprisingly, we don’t see it the same way. One of us finds comfort in structure. The other is learning what happens when you loosen your grip. And then there’s Paris—where every plan is tested. Do you map out every moment… or get lost on purpose? Because maybe the real question is: Is control keeping us safe… or keeping us stuck?
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