{"version":"1.0","type":"rich","provider_name":"Acast","provider_url":"https://acast.com","height":250,"width":700,"html":"<iframe src=\"https://embed.acast.com/$/69c540df9b6be94a1a8184c6/69f1ca932f651f55f54f8c64?\" frameBorder=\"0\" width=\"700\" height=\"250\"></iframe>","title":"The Kindness Code - Episode 4 - Managing disclosures: when a child tells you something big","thumbnail_width":200,"thumbnail_height":200,"thumbnail_url":"https://open-images.acast.com/shows/69c540df9b6be94a1a8184c6/1777453664522-f1c401b9-4303-42cf-9a35-997a8a2a30e8.jpeg?height=200","description":"<p><strong>Managing disclosures: when a child tells you something big</strong></p><p>It rarely happens when you expect it.</p><p>It happens in the car. At the sink. Mid-cartoon. In the silence after a hard day — when a child finally decides you're the one they're going to tell.</p><p>What you say in the next ten seconds matters more than almost anything else you'll do in your shift.</p><p>In this episode, Carmel and Chelsea talk through how to respond when a child discloses something difficult — in a way that protects them, holds the trust they've just handed you, and keeps you steady when your own stomach drops.</p><p>We cover:</p><ul><li>Why disclosures almost never look like disclosures</li><li>The two phrases that should be muscle memory for every adult working with children: <em>\"I'm really glad you told me.\"</em></li><li><em>\"I may need to share this to help keep you safe, but I'll support you through it.\"</em></li><li>Why \"promising to keep a secret\" is the single most damaging response — and what to say instead</li><li>How to manage your own reaction in the moment (because children read your face before they hear your words)</li><li>What happens after the disclosure — and why your job isn't done when the conversation ends</li></ul><p>Because how a child is met in that moment shapes whether they'll ever tell anyone again.</p><ul><li>Press play.</li></ul>","author_name":"Carmel Saulbrey"}