Feet, leather, role-play, secret fantasies… what on earth turns people on, and WHY?!
This week on How To Have Sex, Jay-Jay Feeney and sex and relationship coach Melissa Vranjes dive into the fascinating world of kinks and fetishes. And trust us, things get interesting!
Jay-Jay reveals the bizarre story of a man who asked her out on LinkedIn and then requested photos of her ANKLES. Another man offered her $100 for a video of her dirty feet. Yes, really.
Meanwhile, Mel explains why people develop unusual turn-ons, the difference between a kink and a fetish, and how to introduce your secret desires to a partner without scaring them off.
There's also a surprisingly moving story about a married couple navigating a very unexpected discovery, some hilarious confessions about Jay-Jay's old PVC pants, and plenty of moments where Mel leaves Jay-Jay completely speechless.
Can your relationship survive if your partner's fantasy is your absolute nightmare? And is having a kink really as unusual as we think?
This episode is funny, eye-opening, educational and completely judgment-free. Whether you're adventurous, curious or proudly vanilla, there's something here for you.
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Kink: A Straight Girl's Investigation — Stephanie Clifford-Smith
Jay-Jay mentions this fascinating book by Australian journalist Stephanie Clifford-Smith, who explored the world of unusual fetishes by interviewing people about their experiences.
FetLife — fetlife.com
An online community for adults interested in exploring BDSM, fetishes and alternative lifestyles. Mel mentions it as a place where people can connect with others who share similar interests.
Mel's Sex School
Want to take what you're learning into the real world? Mel runs Sex School, an educational platform helping women explore pleasure, confidence, intimacy and relationships.
Our episode: How To Dirty Talk (Without Dying of Embarrassment)
We revisit some of the advice from this earlier episode, especially when discussing how to communicate desires and become more comfortable expressing yourself with a partner.
How to Have Sex is a shame-free sex education podcast hosted by broadcaster Jay-Jay Feeney and certified sex and relationship coach Melissa Vranjes; one nosy, curious host and one expert who actually knows what she's talking about. Every episode tackles the stuff most of us were never taught, minus the awkward classroom diagrams.
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