{"version":"1.0","type":"rich","provider_name":"Acast","provider_url":"https://acast.com","height":250,"width":700,"html":"<iframe src=\"https://embed.acast.com/$/699e41e8a4a9e6b7fd8ba4c5/6ac33160977a4e50d44f2412?\" frameBorder=\"0\" width=\"700\" height=\"250\"></iframe>","title":"How To Choose & Use Adult Toys For Couples","description":"<p>Warning: there may be batteries. There may be buzzing. There will definitely be a Batman-shaped cock ring.</p><p><br></p><p>This week Jay-Jay Feeney and sex and relationship coach Melissa Vranjes tip a giant box of toys onto the bed and work out what couples should actually be playing with. Whether you&#39;re a total beginner or your bedside drawer is already full, Mel walks through how to choose a toy based on the sensation you want, why a toy is never &quot;competition&quot; for your partner, and how shopping together can open up the best conversations about pleasure.</p><p><br></p><p>We cover:</p><ul><li>Why toys aren&#39;t a sign something&#39;s missing (and how they help through pregnancy, perimenopause and erectile changes)</li><li>Starting with the feeling you want: vibration, suction, sensation play, a bit of spanking...</li><li>Dual-stimulation toys, pinpoint vibrators and why &quot;solo&quot; toys work brilliantly for two</li><li>Rings, strokers and double-ended toys, with live (clothed!) demos</li><li>Wearables, remote apps, and Mel&#39;s very sneaky cafe date with Steve</li><li>The biggest mistake couples make when bringing a toy into bed</li><li>Cleaning, materials, lube, charging and why you should never buy your toys from a bargain site</li></ul><p><br></p><p>Plus: Jay-Jay figures out why toys have always made her feel awkward. Mel&#39;s mum makes her bed and finds a surprise. A dildo comes back from the bin. And we deliver a sex swing review nobody asked for.</p><p><br></p><p>Want to see the toys? Watch the full uncensored video on our Substack or Apple Podcasts..</p><p><br></p><p>How to Have Sex is a shame-free sex education podcast hosted by broadcaster Jay-Jay Feeney and certified sex and relationship coach Melissa Vranjes; one nosy, curious host and one expert who actually knows what she&#39;s talking about. Every episode tackles the stuff most of us were never taught, minus the awkward classroom diagrams.</p><p><br></p><p>This episode is brought to you by <strong>Adult Toy Megastore</strong>, New Zealand&#39;s favourite place for everything adult, with the country&#39;s biggest range, great prices and discreet delivery. Use code <strong>TOY15 </strong>at adulttoymegastore.co.nz for 15% off.</p><p><br></p><p>SUBSCRIBE TO OUR SUBSTACK <a href=\"https://hthspodcast.substack.com\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">https://hthspodcast.substack.com</a> </p><p>INSTAGRAM <a href=\"https://www.instagram.com/howtohavesexpodcast\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">https://www.instagram.com/howtohavesexpodcast</a> </p><p>FACEBOOK <a href=\"https://www.facebook.com/HowToHaveSexPodcast\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">https://www.facebook.com/HowToHaveSexPodcast</a> </p><p>YOUTUBE <a href=\"https://www.youtube.com/@Howtohavesexpodcast\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">https://www.youtube.com/@Howtohavesexpodcast</a> </p><p>EMAIL <a href=\"mailto:howtohavesexpodcastnz@gmail.com\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">howtohavesexpodcastnz@gmail.com</a></p><p>Support the podcast! <a href=\"https://buymeacoffee.com/howtohavesex\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">https://buymeacoffee.com/howtohavesex</a></p><p><br></p><p>How To Have Sex is produced by PodLab, Auckland. <a href=\"https://www.podlab.co.nz\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">https://www.podlab.co.nz</a></p><p><br></p><p>HOSTS: <strong>Jay-Jay Feeney</strong> – Media Personality Instagram/TikTok: @JJFeeneyNZ Facebook: <a href=\"https://www.facebook.com/JayJayFeeney\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">https://www.facebook.com/JayJayFeeney</a></p><p><strong>Melissa Vranjes</strong> – Certified Somatic Sex &amp; Relationship Coach <a href=\"http://www.melissavranjes.com\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">www.melissavranjes.com</a> Instagram: @melissavranjes</p><p>Ready to feel more confident, connected, and turned on in your body? Join Sex School here: <a href=\"https://www.melissavranjes.com/sex-school\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">https://www.melissavranjes.com/sex-school</a></p>","author_name":"Jay-Jay Feeney & Melissa Vranjes"}