{"version":"1.0","type":"rich","provider_name":"Acast","provider_url":"https://acast.com","height":250,"width":700,"html":"<iframe src=\"https://embed.acast.com/$/699e41e8a4a9e6b7fd8ba4c5/6a2e09d4cd023694946712d2?\" frameBorder=\"0\" width=\"700\" height=\"250\"></iframe>","title":"How To Bring Your Fantasies To Life","description":"<p>Turns out almost everyone has a fantasy they've never told a single soul. This week Jay-Jay and sex &amp; relationship coach Mel Vranjes get into sexual fantasies; what's actually going on underneath them, why just <em>talking</em> about one can be almost as hot as living it out, and how to bring it up with your partner without causing a small relationship earthquake.</p><p><br></p><p>Mel shares the research on the most common fantasies (group sex, power play, and being completely ravished all made the list), and we talk through how to find the <em>feeling</em> behind a fantasy so you're not stuck trying to recreate an exact scene from a book.</p><p><br></p><p>Also in this episode: Jay-Jay's worst date story ever, the golden showers chat nobody asked for, why pegging makes so many people squirm and shouldn't, and a Pleasure Practice that's basically just permission to daydream a bit more.</p><p><br></p><p><em>Topics: sexual fantasies, fantasy communication, kinks and power play, BDSM basics, intimacy and desire, couples communication, sex education, relationship advice</em></p><p><br></p><p>How to Have Sex is a shame-free sex education podcast hosted by broadcaster Jay-Jay Feeney and certified sex and relationship coach Melissa Vranjes; one nosy, curious host and one expert who actually knows what she's talking about. Every episode tackles the stuff most of us were never taught, minus the awkward classroom diagrams. </p><p><br></p><p>This podcast is proudly sponsored by Wild Secrets. Shop online at <a href=\"http://www.wildsecrets.co.nz\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">www.wildsecrets.co.nz</a> &amp; use the code HAVESEX for 20% off sitewide… Pleasure Delivered.</p><p><br></p><p><strong>JOIN OUR COMMUNITY!</strong></p><p>SUBSCRIBE TO OUR SUBSTACK <a href=\"https://hthspodcast.substack.com\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">https://hthspodcast.substack.com</a></p><p>INSTAGRAM <a href=\"https://www.instagram.com/howtohavesexpodcast\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">https://www.instagram.com/howtohavesexpodcast</a></p><p>FACEBOOK <a href=\"https://www.facebook.com/HowToHaveSexPodcast\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">https://www.facebook.com/HowToHaveSexPodcast</a></p><p>YOUTUBE <a href=\"https://www.youtube.com/@Howtohavesexpodcast\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">https://www.youtube.com/@Howtohavesexpodcast</a></p><p>EMAIL <a href=\"mailto:howtohavesexpodcastnz@gmail.com\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">howtohavesexpodcastnz@gmail.com</a></p><p>Support the podcast! <a href=\"https://buymeacoffee.com/howtohavesex\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">https://buymeacoffee.com/howtohavesex</a></p><p><br></p><p>How To Have Sex is produced by PodLab, Auckland. <a href=\"https://www.podlab.co.nz\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">https://www.podlab.co.nz</a></p><p><br></p><p>HOSTS:</p><p>Jay-Jay Feeney – Media Personality</p><p>Instagram/TikTok: @JJFeeneyNZ</p><p>Facebook: <a href=\"https://www.facebook.com/JayJayFeeney\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">https://www.facebook.com/JayJayFeeney</a></p><p><br></p><p>Melissa Vranjes – Certified Somatic Sex &amp; Relationship Coach</p><p><a href=\"http://www.melissavranjes.com\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">www.melissavranjes.com</a></p><p>Instagram: @melissavranjes</p><p>Ready to feel more confident, connected, and turned on in your body? Join Sex School here: <a href=\"https://www.melissavranjes.com/sex-school\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">https://www.melissavranjes.com/sex-school</a></p>","author_name":"Jay-Jay Feeney & Melissa Vranjes"}