{"version":"1.0","type":"rich","provider_name":"Acast","provider_url":"https://acast.com","height":250,"width":700,"html":"<iframe src=\"https://embed.acast.com/$/699d84ebe58ea91138795ae1/69e1ed08289eeb2c7b0d51a5?\" frameBorder=\"0\" width=\"700\" height=\"250\"></iframe>","title":"S01 EP03: Stacey van den Aardweg","description":"<p>Why does the mental load feel invisible, until it’s overwhelming?</p><p><br></p><p>In this episode of the Modern Load Podcast (MOLO), host Sophie Bruce is joined by Stacey van den Aardweg to unpack the unseen weight carried across work, home, and everything in between.</p><p><br></p><p>Stacey shares her perspective on how the mental load shows up day-to-day — from managing households and careers to the constant background processing that never really switches off. The conversation explores why this load is so often misunderstood, how it impacts relationships, and what needs to change to create a more balanced way of living.</p><p><br></p><p>This is an honest, practical conversation about awareness, ownership, and the systems we need to rethink.</p><p><br></p><p><strong>What we cover:</strong></p><ul><li>What the “mental load” actually is — and why it’s often invisible</li><li>How the load builds across work, home, and relationships</li><li>Why it’s not just about tasks — but responsibility and anticipation</li><li>The emotional impact of carrying the load long-term</li><li>How relationships are affected by imbalance</li><li>Why awareness is the first step to change</li><li>Practical ways to better distribute responsibility</li><li>The role of communication, expectation setting, and ownership</li><li>Why modern life amplifies the pressure</li></ul><p><br></p><p><strong>Chapters:</strong></p><p>00:00 – Introducing the mental load</p><p>01:18 – What people get wrong about it</p><p>03:05 – Tasks vs responsibility</p><p>05:12 – The invisible work behind the scenes</p><p>07:40 – How the load builds over time</p><p>09:15 – Emotional impact and burnout</p><p>11:02 – Relationships and imbalance</p><p>13:24 – Why it often goes unnoticed</p><p>15:08 – Awareness as the first step</p><p>17:20 – Communication and expectation setting</p><p>19:45 – Redistributing responsibility</p><p>22:10 – Practical ways to reduce the load</p><p>24:30 – The role of modern life and pressure</p><p>27:05 – Rethinking how we approach work and home</p><p>29:40 – Final reflections and advice</p><p><br></p><p>📩 Get in touch: info@moloapp.io</p><p>X - https://x.com/TheModernLoad_</p><p>Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/themoloapp/</p><p>LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/molo-app/</p><p>Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/people/The-MOLO-App</p><p>TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@themoloapp</p><p>YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@TheModernLoad</p>","author_name":"Sophie Bruce"}