{"version":"1.0","type":"rich","provider_name":"Acast","provider_url":"https://acast.com","height":250,"width":700,"html":"<iframe src=\"https://embed.acast.com/$/6995bf2a435569254bd050b5/69cfaf723a785fb94be68e8c?\" frameBorder=\"0\" width=\"700\" height=\"250\"></iframe>","title":"You're Seeking Approval From People Who Aren't Thinking About You","description":"<p>We can't put a brick down yet! We need planning permission first. But in this episode, we're talking about the metaphorical kind.&nbsp;</p><p>Episode 4 is all about the invisible permission committee living rent-free in your head. You know the one; parents, friends, society, social media, and yes... even ghosts (people who haven't been in your life for years). We're diving deep into why so many of us are engaging in self-betrayal just to keep the committee happy, and why it's time to hand in your resignation.&nbsp;</p><p><br></p><p>Candice gets personal, from a two-year battle over unfollowing everyone on social media, to a nipple piercing she sat on for three years, to showing up to London Fashion Week in a crumpled black hoodie when the jacket stayed home. </p><p><br></p><p>Real stories. Real growth. Real accountability.&nbsp;This week's self-reflection question is: Whose permission do you think you need to be the best version of you?&nbsp;And on the flip side: What would your dream life look like if you remembered you didn't need anyone's permission to build it?</p><p><br></p><p>We're deep in the rebuild. Don't skip steps.&nbsp;</p><p><br></p><p>Follow Candice on Substack for more. </p><p>Find Candice on all platforms: @CandiceBrathwaite @ConversationsWithCandicePod&nbsp;</p><p>Conversations with Candice is not a therapy substitute, but it is a safe space to do the work. </p><p>Take the deeper feelings to your journal, your therapist, or your people.&nbsp;</p>","author_name":"Candice Brathwaite "}