{"version":"1.0","type":"rich","provider_name":"Acast","provider_url":"https://acast.com","height":250,"width":700,"html":"<iframe src=\"https://embed.acast.com/$/6995bf2a435569254bd050b5/69c686d49b6be94a1ae9074b?\" frameBorder=\"0\" width=\"700\" height=\"250\"></iframe>","title":"Stop Living Someone Else's Life ","description":"<p>In this episode, we're getting into one of the most important steps of rebuilding your life: the blueprint. Not a vision board. Not a Pinterest aesthetic. The actual rules you're going to live by.</p><p><br></p><p>Candice breaks down why so many of us are living lives designed by other people and what it really takes to start building one by your own intention.</p><p>This episode is equal parts real talk and deep reflection, with a very honest detour about the people we may have to let go of in order to protect the life we're building.</p><p><br></p><p><strong>This episode covers:</strong></p><ul><li>Why your blueprint is a rulebook, not a mood board</li><li>The difference between standing on business and standing on a&nbsp;<em>boundary</em></li><li>Why we try to change our behaviour before defining our values (and why that never works)</li><li>The power of giving yourself small permissions to outgrow the bullshit</li><li>Why some of the hardest boundaries to hold are with people we love most</li><li>Self-sabotage, self-worth, and giving yourself a fighting chance</li></ul><p><br></p><p><strong>Questions to sit with this week:</strong></p><ul><li>If I wasn't scared of disappointing people, what would my life look like?</li><li>What parts of my life feel like recovery instead of living?</li><li>Why is it always tomorrow for me, but immediately for everyone else?</li><li>Do I really love myself?</li></ul>","author_name":"Candice Brathwaite "}