{"version":"1.0","type":"rich","provider_name":"Acast","provider_url":"https://acast.com","height":250,"width":700,"html":"<iframe src=\"https://embed.acast.com/$/695f029d4c8cfced7fb3c21d/6aeb897e348d7ccd6e710021?\" frameBorder=\"0\" width=\"700\" height=\"250\"></iframe>","title":"Passive Parents and Scapegoats","description":"<p>Content warning: This episode contains descriptions of childhood abuse, including emotional and physical abuse, and a grandparent&#39;s inappropriate behavior toward children. </p><p><br></p><p>In this Q&amp;A episode, a listener writes in about a father who minimized her mother&#39;s abuse. The second listener describes growing up as the family scapegoat.</p><p><br></p><p>Resources mentioned in the episode:</p><ul><li>When Grief and Anger Live in the Same Room:<a href=\"https://callinghome.co/topics/grieving-complicated-relationships/when-grief-and-anger-live-in-the-same-room\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\"> </a><u><a href=\"https://callinghome.co/topics/grieving-complicated-relationships/when-grief-and-anger-live-in-the-same-room\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">https://callinghome.co/topics/grieving-complicated-relationships/when-grief-and-anger-live-in-the-same-room</a></u></li><li>The Grief That No One Sees: Why You’re Allowed to Mourn Complicated People:<a href=\"https://callinghome.co/topics/grieving-complicated-relationships/the-grief-that-no-one-sees-why-you-re-allowed-to-mourn-complicated-people\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\"> </a><u><a href=\"https://callinghome.co/topics/grieving-complicated-relationships/the-grief-that-no-one-sees-why-you-re-allowed-to-mourn-complicated-people\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">https://callinghome.co/topics/grieving-complicated-relationships/the-grief-that-no-one-sees-why-you-re-allowed-to-mourn-complicated-people</a></u></li><li>A Letter to the Mother I Needed Worksheet:<a href=\"https://callinghome.co/topics/healing-from-neglectful-rejecting-and-cruel-mothers/a-letter-to-the-mother-i-needed\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\"> </a><u><a href=\"https://callinghome.co/topics/healing-from-neglectful-rejecting-and-cruel-mothers/a-letter-to-the-mother-i-needed\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">https://callinghome.co/topics/healing-from-neglectful-rejecting-and-cruel-mothers/a-letter-to-the-mother-i-needed</a></u></li><li>The Parent You Have: <u><a href=\"https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/books/808472/the-parent-you-have-by-whitney-goodman-lmft/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/books/808472/the-parent-you-have-by-whitney-goodman-lmft/</a> </u></li><li>Maintenance Phase Estrangement Episode: <u><a href=\"https://www.patreon.com/maintenancephase/posts/october-bonus-173122402\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">https://www.patreon.com/maintenancephase/posts/october-bonus-173122402</a> </u></li></ul><p><br></p><p>Whitney Goodman is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) and the founder of Calling Home, a membership community that helps people navigate complex family dynamics and break harmful cycles.</p><p><br></p><p>Have a question for Whitney? Send a voice memo or email to whitney@callinghome.co</p><p><br></p><p>Join the Family Cyclebreakers Club: https://callinghome.co</p><p>Follow Whitney on Instagram | sitwithwhit</p><p>Follow Whitney on YouTube | @whitneygoodmanlmft</p><p>Order Whitney&#39;s book, Toxic Positivity: https://sitwithwhit.com/toxic-positivity</p><p><br></p><p>Sign up for updates on Whitney&#39;s new book: <u><a href=\"https://cmnyyv4kpyt.typeform.com/to/PHMzjy0o\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">https://cmnyyv4kpyt.typeform.com/to/PHMzjy0o</a></u></p><p><br></p><p>This podcast is for informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional mental health advice.</p>","author_name":"Calling Home"}