Whitney shares an interview with Harriet Shearsmith, author of \"Unfollowing Mum: Break Unhealthy Patterns and be the Parent You Wish You’d Had\" and host of the Unfollowing Mum podcast. Harriet opens up about her journey from being completely enmeshed with her mother who lived with Harriet, her husband and three children to eventually becoming estranged after asking her mom to find her own home. They discuss the challenges of recognizing abuse in your own family system, the societal guilt of cutting contact with a parent, cycle breaking with your own children, and how to repair when you make mistakes with your own children.
\nHarriet's new book: https://amzn.to/43vKLFO
\nHarriet's website: https://harrietshearsmith.com/
\nHarriet's Instagram: @harrietshearsmith
\nWhitney Goodman is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) and the founder of Calling Home, a membership community that helps people navigate complex family dynamics and break harmful cycles.
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\n00:00 Introduction to Harriet Shearsmith and her work
\n01:43 Harriet's story
\n15:19 The societal guilt of questioning your parent's behavior
\n26:07 The difficulty of defining abuse
\n44:14 Raising children who know their worth
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