{"version":"1.0","type":"rich","provider_name":"Acast","provider_url":"https://acast.com","height":250,"width":700,"html":"<iframe src=\"https://embed.acast.com/$/695d7f598e6dd12efb152bd2/695d7f6364fe6d212780f474?\" frameBorder=\"0\" width=\"700\" height=\"250\"></iframe>","title":"I’ve Only Just Discovered What Really Turns Me On. But What Is This Even Called?","description":"<p>This week, Stoya and Rich answer a letter from a man who’s just made a new sexual discovery about himself. Then they hear from a woman who’s feeling judged for her boundaries.</p><p><strong>Guest: </strong><a href=\"https://twitter.com/RScoats\">Ryan Scoats</a></p><p><strong>Mentioned in the episode:</strong></p><p><a href=\"https://psycnet.apa.org/record/2017-55649-003\">‘I don’t mind watching him cum’: Heterosexual men, threesomes, and the erosion of the one-time rule of homosexuality.</a></p><p><a href=\"http://www.amazon.com/dp/0367785498/?tag=slatmaga-20\"><em>Understanding Threesomes</em></a> by Ryan Scoats</p><p>***</p><p><em>Slate Plus members get another episode of the How to Do It podcast every Monday. </em><a href=\"https://slate.com/plus?utm_medium=link&amp;utm_campaign=plus_pod&amp;utm_content=How_To_Do_It&amp;utm_source=show_notes\"><em>Sign up for Slate Plus now for just $1.</em></a></p><p>Read the How to Do It column on Slate <a href=\"https://slate.com/human-interest/how-to-do-it\">here</a>. If you’re in need of sex advice from Stoya and Rich, write in <a href=\"https://slate.com/human-interest/how-to-do-it\">here</a> or leave a voicemail at ‪(347) 640-4025 and we may use it on the show. Remember, it’s anonymous—and nothing is too embarrassing!</p><p>Production by Chau Tu.</p><p> </p>","author_name":"Slate Podcasts"}