{"version":"1.0","type":"rich","provider_name":"Acast","provider_url":"https://acast.com","height":250,"width":700,"html":"<iframe src=\"https://embed.acast.com/$/695d36b239d31c8588344aa8/695d36fb64fe6d2127656353?\" frameBorder=\"0\" width=\"700\" height=\"250\"></iframe>","title":"Self-Expression-ish Edition","description":"<p>On this week’s episode: Jamilah, Elizabeth, and guest host Courtney Martin discuss triumphs and fails, co-housing and Courtney’s new book, <a href=\"https://www.amazon.com/Learning-Public-Lessons-Racially-Daughters/dp/0316428264\">Learning in Public: Lessons for a Racially Divided America from My Daughter's School</a>. </p><p><br></p><p>Then they answer a question from a listener who is wondering how to help her child adapt to wearing a uniform at school while still encouraging self-expression. Jamilah suggested to mix things up by adding in fun ties, like <a href=\"https://www.instagram.com/p/BKDvKOMDd96/?utm_medium=share_sheet\">this one</a> she dressed her daughter in a few years ago.</p><p><br></p><p>In Slate Plus: When should we talk to our kids about sex? According to researchers, much earlier than you may think!</p><p><a href=\"https://www.nytimes.com/2021/07/28/parenting/parents-sex-talk.html\">NY Times - Sex Talks Should Start Earlier Than You Think</a> </p><p><br></p><p><br></p><p><strong>Recommendations:</strong></p><p><br></p><p>Jamilah recommends online vintage shopping. And if you’re worried about sizing, pay attention to the fabric! Stretch is key. </p><p><br></p><p>Elizabeth recommends pelvic floor PT to help with pelvic weakness. One resource she mentioned is <a href=\"https://instagram.com/orthopelvicpt?utm_medium=copy_link\">this instagram page</a>.</p><p><br></p><p>Courtney recommends subscribing to the Substack Newsletter by Sarah Wheeler called <a href=\"https://momspreading.substack.com/\">Momspreading</a>.</p><p><br></p><p>You can read Courtney’s piece in The Nation <a href=\"https://www.thenation.com/article/society/anti-racist-parenting/\">here</a>. Jamilah’s piece in The Nation can be found <a href=\"https://www.thenation.com/article/society/black-children-school/\">here</a>.</p><p><br></p><p>Join us on<a href=\"https://www.facebook.com/groups/slateparenting/\"> Facebook</a> and email us at momanddad@slate.com to ask us new questions, tell us what you thought of today’s show, and give us ideas about what we should talk about in future episodes. </p><p><br></p><p>Podcast produced by Morgan Flannery. </p><p><br></p><p><strong>Hosts </strong></p><p><br></p><p><strong>Elizabeth Newcamp</strong> is a co-host of Mom and Dad Are Fighting. She's a traveling mother of three boys who chronicles her misadventures at Dutch, Dutch, Goose.</p><p><br></p><p><strong>Jamilah Lemieux</strong> is a writer, cultural critic, and communications strategist based in Brooklyn, New York.</p><p><br></p><p><strong>Courtney Martin </strong>is an author and political activist. She’s the author of four books, including <em>Learning in Public </em>and <em>The New Better Off. </em>You can find out more about her at her website: <a href=\"https://www.courtneyemartin.com/\">https://www.courtneyemartin.com</a></p><p><br></p><p><br></p><p><strong>Social</strong></p><p><br></p><p>@JamilahLemieux on Twitter <a href=\"https://twitter.com/JamilahLemieux\">https://twitter.com/JamilahLemieux</a></p><p><br></p><p>@dutchdutchgoose on Facebook <a href=\"https://www.facebook.com/dutchdutchgoose/\">https://www.facebook.com/dutchdutchgoose/</a></p><p><br></p><p>@courtwrites on Twitter <a href=\"https://twitter.com/courtwrites?ref_src=twsrc%5Egoogle%7Ctwcamp%5Eserp%7Ctwgr%5Eauthor\">https://twitter.com/courtwrites</a></p><p><br></p><p><br></p><p>Slate Plus members get a bonus segment on MADAF each week, and no ads. Sign up now at <a href=\"https://my.slate.com/plus?utm_medium=link&amp;utm_campaign=plus_pod&amp;utm_content=Mom_and_Dad&amp;utm_source=show_notes\">slate.com/momanddadplus</a> to listen and support our work.</p><p> </p>","author_name":"Slate Podcasts"}