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In one of the most confronting and emotionally powerful episodes of Dear Divorce Diary, Darren Mort (Family Law Barrister) and Joplin Higgins (Practising Family Lawyer) tackle the deeply serious topic of strangulation within intimate relationships — and why it is considered one of the strongest indicators of future lethality in domestic violence situations.
Drawing on their extensive experience within the family law and court systems, Daz and Jop unpack:
This episode is both educational and deeply human — offering insight into the realities faced by victim-survivors navigating separation, parenting and the legal system after severe domestic violence.
Daz and Jop discuss how many victim-survivors never seek immediate medical treatment following strangulation incidents — often due to fear, trauma or shock.
They highlight serious medical consequences including:
Jop strongly encourages victim-survivors to seek urgent medical attention and documentation after any strangulation incident.
One of the most important parts of the episode examines why victim-survivors may delay reporting violence to police, doctors or the courts.
The conversation explores:
Daz explains how defence teams in court often scrutinise “contemporaneous reporting” — meaning whether incidents were immediately reported — despite the complex trauma responses victims experience.
Darren Mort
Family law barrister, advocate and commentator focused on family violence, parenting matters and trauma-informed legal practice.
Joplin Higgins
Family lawyer, author and Director of Joplin Lawyers, recognised for her work in family violence advocacy and victim-survivor support.
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