Does your child know it's safe to tell you anything?
If that question makes you pause, even for just a second, this episode is for you.
In this deeply moving and empowering conversation, Wendy is joined by Vish Patel: podiatrist, mother of three, 12-year survivor of the justice system, and now the inspiring author of Say Something: Tell, Tell, Tell — a children's book designed to give children the language, the courage, and the safe space to speak up about abuse.
One in five children who experience abuse never tell a single person. Not because they don't want to, but because they are scared, confused, manipulated into secrecy, or simply don't believe they will be believed.
This episode speaks directly to the heart of that silence, and what we, as parents, carers, teachers, and communities, can do to change it.
In this episode, Wendy and Vish explore:
Vish's story is one of extraordinary courage.
After 12 years navigating the UK justice system, and finally receiving the guilty verdict that freed her to speak, she turned her pain into purpose. Written alongside her children, Say Something: Tell, Tell, Tell is not just a book. It is a movement.
\"The first time a child opens up to you is the moment of trust. How you handle it will shape whether they'll ever come to you again.\" — Vish Patel
Whether you are a parent who worries something might not be right, someone who experienced childhood abuse and has carried that silence for far too long, a teacher, a care worker, or simply someone who loves a child, this episode will stay with you.
You are not alone. And it is never too late to break the silence.
📖 Get Vish's book — Say Something: Tell, Tell, Tell: https://amzn.eu/d/0hSIbmVp
Proceeds from the book go towards child abuse prevention.
About Vish Patel: Vish Patel is a UK-based podiatrist, mother, and debut children's author. After enduring childhood sexual abuse and spending 12 years fighting for justice through the UK legal system, Vish channelled her experience into Say Something: Tell, Tell, Tell — a beautifully illustrated, research-backed children's book featuring the gender-neutral character Emi and the wise Golden Owl. Written as a healing journey alongside her own children, the book is a practical tool for parents, educators, and carers to open conversations about body safety, personal boundaries, and the courage to speak up. Vish's mission is simple: to transform the silence surrounding child abuse into a global movement of awareness, prevention, and healing across generations.
🌐 Find Wendy: Website: www.wendycastelino.com YouTube: Wendy Castelino on YouTube
Please note: This podcast episode is intended for guidance, awareness, and support only and does not constitute professional therapeutic, medical, or legal advice. If you or someone you know has been affected by child abuse, please seek support from a qualified professional or contact your local safeguarding authority.
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