{"version":"1.0","type":"rich","provider_name":"Acast","provider_url":"https://acast.com","height":250,"width":700,"html":"<iframe src=\"https://embed.acast.com/$/68efb2c251a2f46134c39ff6/6a9d9a67eea4f5ac9afb1c74?\" frameBorder=\"0\" width=\"700\" height=\"250\"></iframe>","title":"Pity the System, Not the Child (with Carrie Grant, MBE)","thumbnail_width":200,"thumbnail_height":200,"thumbnail_url":"https://open-images.acast.com/shows/68efb2c251a2f46134c39ff6/1788713395170-09e0fc64-fd4d-4f75-8575-00c02458289d.jpeg?height=200","description":"<p><strong>Autism: The Beautiful Reality | Season 2, Episode 1 | Carrie Grant MBE on Autism, Trauma, PDA &amp; Neurodiversity</strong>&nbsp;</p><p><br></p><p>In our first episode of season 2, Guy is joined by vocal coach, author, and TV presenter Carrie Grant, MBE.&nbsp;&nbsp;</p><p><br></p><p>As a mother of four neurodivergent children and having received her own autism diagnosis later in life, Carrie offers a fierce, beautifully candid defense of neurodiversity.&nbsp;</p><p><br></p><p>She shatters the myth that a diagnosis brings grief, pointing out instead that the real trauma is inflicted by a rigid, judgmental educational and healthcare system that gaslights families. Sharing personal breakthroughs, from her daughter flourishing as an actor on the TV show Hollyoaks to learning the profound power of simply sitting in silent presence on a teenager's bed. Carrie provides parents with an empowering toolkit for survival, radical acceptance, and learning how to build a world where neurodivergent individuals can truly thrive.&nbsp;</p><p><br></p><p>If you have found this episode helpful and would like to support Transforming Autism’s work, you can make a donation here: https://tinyurl.com/tap-donate&nbsp;&nbsp;</p><p><br></p><p>Every contribution means we can support even more young Autistic children to fulfil their potential and, with their families, live happy, fulfilling lives.&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</p><p>Transforming Autism: <a href=\"https://transformingautism.org/&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">https://transformingautism.org/&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</a></p><p><br></p><p>#Autism #AutismAwareness #Neurodiversity #AutisticChildren #AutismParenting #TraumaInformedParenting #PDA #PathologicalDemandAvoidance #AutismAndGirls #AutismMasking #SEND #SpecialEducationalNeeds #AutismAdvocacy #CarrieGrant #TransformingAutism&nbsp;</p><p><br></p><p><strong>Timestamps</strong>&nbsp;</p><p><br></p><p>•\t00:00 - Introduction&nbsp;</p><p>•\t01:25 - The First Signs &amp; School System Shock&nbsp;</p><p>•\t02:22 - Navigating Diagnoses (ADHD &amp; Autism)&nbsp;</p><p>•\t04:30 - Grief is Not the Child, Grief is the System&nbsp;</p><p>•\t08:30 - Systemic Gaslighting &amp; The SEMH Bias&nbsp;</p><p>•\t11:08 - Holding Onto Identity vs. 'Self-Care'&nbsp;</p><p>•\t12:40 - Jumping Ship: Unlearning Traditional Parenting&nbsp;</p><p>•\t16:57 - The Power of Silent Presence (A Breakthrough Connection)&nbsp;</p><p>•\t24:13 - Validating Anxiety &amp; The School Gate Mirror&nbsp;</p><p>•\t27:02 - The 3-Part Triangle: Anxiety, Toleration, &amp; Demand&nbsp;</p><p>•\t35:25 - From Parent to Campaigner: Growing the Village&nbsp;</p><p>•\t39:30 - How Autism Manifests Differently in Girls&nbsp;</p><p>•\t45:00 - Shifting the Paradigm: From Linear Lines to the Wheel&nbsp;</p><p>•\t48:54 - Carrie’s Own Late-Life Diagnosis at 57&nbsp;</p><p>•\t52:03 - Quickfire Questions &amp; Final Words of Hope&nbsp;</p>","author_name":"Transforming Autism"}