In Episode 6 of The Beautiful Reality of Autism, Guy Shahar is joined by Jessica Whalley, a late-diagnosed autistic mum whose son Jude is autistic and non-verbal.
Jessica reflects on growing up as an autistic girl who ‘masked’ to fit in, why many autistic women are missed, and how her own diagnosis came after Jude’s. She shares what it was like when autism first entered her life: fear about the future, hyperfocus on speech, and feeling as if parenting had become a job.
A pivotal moment came when Jessica realised she didn’t want to lose Jude’s childhood to worry. She describes the shift from chasing outcomes to enjoying her son for who he is, reducing pressure, and building a secure, positive home environment
The conversation also covers self-care and respite, routines, empathy, and why acceptance is not ‘giving up’ but the foundation for progress. Jessica also shares her book, The Autistic Mom.
What you’ll discover:
Jessica’s book (The Autistic Mom): https://www.amazon.co.uk/Autistic-Mom-diagnosis-raising-neurodivergent/dp/1916572952
Jessica on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/_theaalife_/
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Transforming Autism: https://transformingautism.org/
Music: My Starwing by Nathaniel Weilein
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