{"version":"1.0","type":"rich","provider_name":"Acast","provider_url":"https://acast.com","height":250,"width":700,"html":"<iframe src=\"https://embed.acast.com/$/68e6869af513ad2b8119c368/69d67d88ef4d724206ff09b9?\" frameBorder=\"0\" width=\"700\" height=\"250\"></iframe>","title":"How Daria Realised She Was Autistic 10 Years After Her Son’s Diagnosis","thumbnail_width":200,"thumbnail_height":200,"thumbnail_url":"https://open-images.acast.com/shows/68e6869af513ad2b8119c368/1775666778998-b3b3a845-43a1-4d78-94bc-836df8c7dcbc.jpeg?height=200","description":"<p>In this meeting of The Late Diagnosis Club, Dr Angela Kingdon welcomes Daria Brown, creator of Affect Autism and host of the <em>We Chose Play</em> podcast.</p><p><br></p><p>Daria shares her journey from parent advocate to late-identified Autistic adult, reflecting on the decade between her son’s diagnosis and her own. What began as a search for how to support her son eventually led to a deeper understanding of herself, reframing lifelong traits, parenting experiences, and ways of relating to the world.</p><p><br></p><p>They discuss DIR Floortime, rejecting compliance-based approaches, and the role of connection, regulation, and play in both parenting and personal growth.</p><p>This is a conversation about unlearning, identity, and what happens when the lens finally shifts.</p><p><br></p><p>🪑 Attendees</p><p>Chair: Dr Angela Kingdon — Author, community-builder, and Autistic advocate</p><p>Guest: Daria Brown — Parent advocate, podcaster, and late-identified Autistic adult</p><p>You: The Listener!</p><p><br></p><p>🗒️ Meeting Agenda</p><ul><li>Opening remarks from the Chair</li><li>Member introduction: Parenting, advocacy, and late self-recognition</li><li>Discussion: Son’s diagnosis, seizures, and early understanding of autism</li><li>Medical model, ableism, and the “fixing” mindset</li><li>Discovering Autistic voices during the pandemic</li><li>Questioning identity and the late diagnosis journey</li><li>DIR Floortime, connection, and rejecting compliance-based therapy</li><li>Key learnings</li><li>Club announcements</li></ul><p><br></p><p>🧾 Minutes from the Meeting</p><p><br></p><p>1️⃣ Opening Remarks</p><p>Angela introduces Daria Brown, a long-time parent advocate and creator of Affect Autism, whose work focuses on supporting families through DIR Floortime and neurodiversity-affirming approaches.</p><p><br></p><p>2️⃣ Member Introduction: Daria’s Story</p><p>Daria’s journey into the autism world began with her son’s diagnosis following a serious medical event involving seizures and brain inflammation. At the time, her understanding of autism was shaped by ableist narratives and a belief that her role was to “fix” her child.</p><p>Over the years, as she supported her son and connected with other families, Daria became deeply involved in advocacy and alternative approaches like DIR Floortime.</p><p>A decade after her son’s diagnosis, Daria received her own autism diagnosis, reframing her identity and life experiences.</p><p><br></p><p>3️⃣ Discussion Highlights</p><ul><li>Early assumptions: Autism initially understood through an ableist, deficit-based lens</li><li>Medical trauma: Son’s seizures, hospitalisation, and lasting impact on parenting</li><li>DIR Floortime: Choosing connection and co-regulation over compliance</li><li>ABA tension: Navigating systems that prioritise behaviour over individual needs</li><li>Late recognition: Seeing lifelong traits through an Autistic lens</li><li>Imposter syndrome: Questioning identity despite strong resonance</li><li>Reframing traits: From “bossy” or “controlling” to regulation and coping strategies</li><li>Special interests: Intense projects, creativity, and lifelong patterns</li><li>Community: Finding belonging through shared neurodivergent experiences</li></ul><p><br></p><p>4️⃣ Key Learnings</p><ul><li>Understanding autism often begins with outdated or ableist assumptions that require unlearning.</li><li>Parenting a neurodivergent child can reshape identity and self-understanding.</li><li>Connection and co-regulation are foundational to both parenting and personal growth.</li><li>Traits once labelled negatively may be reframed as adaptive or regulating.</li><li>Community plays a crucial role in reducing isolation and building self-acceptance.</li></ul><p><br></p><p>📌 Notice Board</p><p><a href=\"http://affectautism.com\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Affect Autism Website</a></p><p><a href=\"https://theautisticadvocate.com/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Kieran Rose, The Autistic Advocate</a></p><p><a href=\"https://www.pesi.co.uk/speaker/kathleen-platzman-1621406\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Kathleen Platzman, PhD</a></p><p><a href=\"https://affectautism.com/episodes/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">We Choose Play Podcast</a></p><p><a href=\"https://shows.acast.com/the-neurodivergent-experience\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">The Neurodivergent experience Podcast</a></p><p><br></p><p>📣 Club Announcements</p><p>🎧&nbsp;<em>The Late Diagnosis Club</em>&nbsp;is available on&nbsp;<a href=\"https://open.spotify.com/show/0TXhqtffSfmJrGm5zHANCQ?si=90e3cdf219fe43eb\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Spotify</a>,&nbsp;<a href=\"https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-late-diagnosis-club/id1847627224\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Apple Podcasts</a>, and all major platforms.</p><p>💬 Join our online meetups and community at&nbsp;<a href=\"https://latediagnosis.club/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">latediagnosis.club</a>.</p><p>📌 Check the&nbsp;<a href=\"https://www.autisticculturepodcast.com/t/noticeboard\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">LDC Notice Board</a>&nbsp;for Member Contributions</p><p>💜 There is a small charge — but no one is turned away for lack of funds.</p><p><br></p><p>🌈 Celebrate autistic voices with early access, ad-free listening, and our full archive at&nbsp;<a href=\"http://autisticcultureplus.com/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">AutisticCulturePlus.com</a></p><p>🌐 Visit<a href=\"http://www.autisticculturepodcast.com/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">&nbsp;www.autisticculturepodcast.com</a></p><p>📲 Follow us on Instagram:<a href=\"https://www.instagram.com/autisticculturepodcast\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">&nbsp;@autisticculturepodcast</a></p>","author_name":"Autistic Culture Institute"}