{"version":"1.0","type":"rich","provider_name":"Acast","provider_url":"https://acast.com","height":250,"width":700,"html":"<iframe src=\"https://embed.acast.com/$/68e6869af513ad2b8119c368/69398c76a9d003889cf600d5?\" frameBorder=\"0\" width=\"700\" height=\"250\"></iframe>","title":"How Sean Realised His Burnout Was Autistic, Not Failure","thumbnail_width":200,"thumbnail_height":200,"thumbnail_url":"https://open-images.acast.com/shows/68e6869af513ad2b8119c368/1765981975496-4a0c1b21-3fd4-43b4-9b51-bd8d92de20b5.jpeg?height=200","description":"<p>In this meeting of <em>The Late Diagnosis Club</em>, Dr Angela Kingdon sits down with Sean Hawthorne, a late-identifying Autistic adult who is still in the very <em>middle</em> of discovery — not the end of the journey. Sean spent decades performing a socially acceptable version of himself: the reliable friend, the focused finance professional, the guy who shaped his interests to fit in and kept his sensory overwhelm hidden. But in 2021, a catastrophic burnout forced him to confront a truth he could no longer outrun.</p><p><br></p><p>Together, Angela and Sean explore autistic burnout, somatic reconnection, cultural and religious messaging, unmasking, identity, self-diagnosis, and the relief of realising you were never broken — you were misunderstood.</p><p><br></p><p>🪑 Attendees</p><p>Chair: Dr Angela Kingdon — Author, community-builder, and Autistic advocate</p><p>Guest: Sean Hawthorne — Self-diagnosed Autistic adult navigating late discovery</p><p>You: The Listener!</p><p><br></p><p>🗒️ Meeting Agenda</p><ul><li>Opening remarks from the Chair</li><li>Member introduction: Sean’s early clues</li><li>Discussion: Burnout, masking, religion, culture &amp; re-learning the body</li><li>Key learnings</li><li>Club announcements</li></ul><p><br></p><p>🧾 Minutes from the Meeting</p><p><br></p><p>1️⃣ Opening Remarks</p><p>Angela introduces Sean as someone still <em>in process</em> — mid-discovery, mid-unmasking, mid-clarity — reflecting the reality that Autistic identification can take years, even a decade, to understand fully.</p><p><br></p><p>2️⃣ Member Introduction: Sean’s Story</p><p>Sean’s earliest clues were sensory processing difficulties so intense that he sometimes froze, unable to respond to teachers who insisted he “just answer.” He excelled academically only when placed in a smaller, more patient classroom — a sign of undiscovered neurodivergence that went unnoticed.</p><p><br></p><p>3️⃣ Discussion Highlights</p><ul><li>Sensory overwhelm: Freezing in classrooms, noise sensitivity, overstimulation.</li><li>Masking: Clubs, alcohol, social rules, performing “acceptable” masculinity.</li><li>Cultural &amp; religious pressure: Caribbean/Christian frameworks that framed distress as spiritual or disciplinary issues.</li><li>Burnout: Losing mobility, shutting down, thinking it was “a lack of discipline.”</li><li>Somatic reconnection: Learning interoception, feeling his body’s signals for the first time.</li><li>Self-diagnosis: Valid, grounded, and life-saving.</li><li>Intersectionality: Autistic burnout in the context of Blackness, surveillance, and systemic injustice.</li></ul><p><br></p><p>4️⃣ Key Learnings</p><ul><li>Being dismissed doesn’t mean you were wrong — it means you were unseen.</li><li>Masking becomes a personality, not a strategy.</li><li>Burnout often looks like failure until you have the right language.</li><li>Self-identification can save lives long before formal diagnosis is accessible.</li><li>Reconnecting with the body is disorienting — but also a homecoming.</li><li>Autistic adults aren’t fragile; we’re deprived of support.</li></ul><p><br></p><p>📣 Club Announcements</p><p>🎧 <em>The Late Diagnosis Club</em> is available on <a href=\"https://open.spotify.com/show/0TXhqtffSfmJrGm5zHANCQ?si=90e3cdf219fe43eb\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Spotify</a>, <a href=\"https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-late-diagnosis-club/id1847627224\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Apple Podcasts</a>, and all major platforms.</p><p>💬 Join our online meetups and community at <a href=\"https://latediagnosis.club/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">latediagnosis.club</a>.</p><p>📌 Check the <a href=\"https://www.autisticculturepodcast.com/t/noticeboard\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">LDC Notice Board</a> for Member Contributions</p><p>💜 There is a small charge — but no one is turned away for lack of funds.</p><p><br></p><p>🌈 Celebrate autistic voices with early access, ad-free listening, and our full archive at&nbsp;<a href=\"http://autisticcultureplus.com/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">AutisticCulturePlus.com</a></p><p>🌐 Visit<a href=\"http://www.autisticculturepodcast.com/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">&nbsp;www.autisticculturepodcast.com</a></p><p>📲 Follow us on Instagram:<a href=\"https://www.instagram.com/autisticculturepodcast\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">&nbsp;@autisticculturepodcast</a></p>","author_name":"Autistic Culture Institute"}