{"version":"1.0","type":"rich","provider_name":"Acast","provider_url":"https://acast.com","height":250,"width":700,"html":"<iframe src=\"https://embed.acast.com/$/68bee481b494ca82a27a3434/68bee49827f4c23a1ddea5d1?\" frameBorder=\"0\" width=\"700\" height=\"250\"></iframe>","title":"They’re \"Not Sure\" They Can Commit to You? These Words Put YOU in Control | Rewind","thumbnail_width":200,"thumbnail_height":200,"thumbnail_url":"https://open-images.acast.com/shows/68bee481b494ca82a27a3434/c1895544f31ee70a0bde35b8ac1c3b25.jpeg?height=200","description":"<p>\"I’m not sure if I’m ready for a relationship with you right now. . .”&nbsp;</p><p>Nobody wants to hear these words.&nbsp;</p><p>Especially when it’s coming from someone you genuinely care about.&nbsp;</p><p>Someone you’ve invested time and energy in. . . and someone you feel could be the right person for you in the long term.&nbsp;</p><p>It leaves you wishing they could just get over their indecision...&nbsp;</p><p>If that sounds familiar, I have a simple solution:&nbsp;</p><p>Because there IS a right way and a wrong way to handle this situation...&nbsp;</p><p>The wrong way is to try and convince them of all the reasons you’re a great fit (even if every reason is true). This can accidentally push them further away. . .</p><p>The right way to handle this situation is to meet their confusion with love and kindness, while also standing strong and respecting yourself.&nbsp;</p><p>(Here’s the surprising part: this is actually an incredible opportunity to show your value and remind them of what they risk losing.)&nbsp;</p><p><br></p><p>---</p><p><br></p><p>►► Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now: <a href=\"http://www.askmh.com/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">AskMH.com</a></p><p><br></p><p>►► Order My New Book, \"Love Life\": <a href=\"http://www.lovelifebook.com/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">LoveLifeBook.com</a></p><p><br></p><p>►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results: <a href=\"http://www.datingwithresults.com/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">DatingWithResults.com</a></p>","author_name":"Matthew Hussey"}