{"version":"1.0","type":"rich","provider_name":"Acast","provider_url":"https://acast.com","height":250,"width":700,"html":"<iframe src=\"https://embed.acast.com/$/6896e459c6d7c56cdac0f25d/68afe0b267c7fac20ccb80dc?\" frameBorder=\"0\" width=\"700\" height=\"250\"></iframe>","title":"My Boyfriend's Boyfriend Pt. I","description":"<p>We're talking about polyamory! For Black and brown queer people, and queer people in general, polyamory, open relationships and dating in nontraditional relationship structures has been a really sticky topic. In part 1 of this 2-part episode, Ryan Sides speaks with his former therapist, Dr. Karissa Doster-Hoffman, about what what his experience in poly relationships have been like, things he's learned through trial and error and what are some tools to develop in ANY relationship.</p><p><br></p><p>These are Ryan's experiences and may not be yours; but if they aren't yours (or if they are!) let us know at wave@byryansides.com</p><p><br></p><p><u>Production Note</u>:</p><p>Soulfully Rooted Wellness is no longer an affiliate of DHTC, however, the wonderful owner of that private practice remains in practice: Courtney Butts, LCSW-S</p><p><br></p><p>You can find the practice's Dr. Karissa leads with her husband here:</p><p><br></p><p><a href=\"http://dnhtc.org/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">dnhtc.org</a>&nbsp;—&gt; DHTC</p><p><a href=\"https://bpoqe.org/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">BPOQe.org</a> —&gt; BPOQe</p><p><a href=\"http://wholehealingtherapy.org/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">wholehealingtherapy.org</a>&nbsp;—&gt; WHT</p><p><br></p><p>-Facebook (DHTC; BPOQe; WHT)</p><p>-Instagram (<a href=\"https://www.instagram.com/dnh_tc\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">@dnh_tc</a> ;&nbsp;<a href=\"https://www.instagram.com/bpoqe_dnhtc\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">@bpoqe_dnhtc</a> ;&nbsp;<a href=\"https://www.instagram.com/wht_dnhtc\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">@wht_dnhtc</a>)</p><p>-TikTok (<a href=\"https://www.tiktok.com/@bpoqetherapy\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">@bpoqetherapy</a>)</p><p>-LinkedIn (<a href=\"https://www.linkedin.com/company/bpoqe/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Doster &amp; Hoffman Therapy and Consultation, PLLC</a>)</p><p><br></p><p>And the books that were mentioned (Bookshop links, support local bookstores!!)</p><p><br></p><p><a href=\"https://bookshop.org/p/books/polysecure-attachment-trauma-and-consensual-nonmonogamy-jessica-fern/14490932?ean=9781944934989&amp;next=t\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Polysecure by Jessica Fern</a></p><p><a href=\"https://bookshop.org/p/books/polywise-a-deeper-dive-into-navigating-open-relationships-david-cooley/18957274?ean=9781990869143&amp;next=t\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Polywise by Jessica Fern &amp; David Cooley</a></p><p><a href=\"https://bookshop.org/p/books/the-ethical-slut-third-edition-a-practical-guide-to-polyamory-open-relationships-and-other-freedoms-in-sex-and-love-revised-janet-w-hardy/11368130?ean=9780399579660&amp;next=t\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">The Ethical Slut by Janet W. Hardy &amp; Dossie Easton</a></p>","author_name":"Ryan Sides"}