{"version":"1.0","type":"rich","provider_name":"Acast","provider_url":"https://acast.com","height":250,"width":700,"html":"<iframe src=\"https://embed.acast.com/$/688fe89b0bb12601f0961197/6adfd03bfeb8d1e39c301d78?\" frameBorder=\"0\" width=\"700\" height=\"250\"></iframe>","title":"Retaining Your Power: Demystifying Family Law, Mediation with Dianne Loveday","description":"<p>Going through a separation or divorce is emotionally draining, but navigating the complex legal and financial system without information can cost you your financial independence. In this episode of <em>She Owns It</em>, host Anissa Cavallo sits down with Dianne Loveday (Principal Mediator &amp; Owner at Bayside Mediation, Co-host of <em>A Lawyer and A Mediator Walk Into a Bar</em>). With a background in psychology and decades of experience guiding families through separation, Dianne sheds light on how women can protect themselves financially, drop damaging money mindsets, and avoid spending tens of thousands of dollars in unnecessary legal battles. From unravelling common family law myths to taking practical steps before leaving a relationship, this episode is an essential guide for any woman wanting to safeguard her future and take ownership of her financial security.</p><p><br></p><p><strong> Key Takeaways </strong></p><ul><li>From Psychology to Mediation: Dianne shares her journey from a psychology degree and single motherhood into establishing her own private family mediation practice.</li><li>The Hidden Cost of Family Law Litigation: Why full court proceedings can easily cost $100,000 to $150,000+ per party and how legal expenses strip equity away from families.</li><li>Why You Don&#39;t Always Need a Court Fight: Unpacking the statistic that only 11% of divorcing couples go to a final court hearing.</li><li>Do Prenups (BFAs) Actually Work? The truth about prenuptial agreements, discretionary jurisdiction, and what happens when children enter the picture.</li><li>Joint vs. Separate Bank Accounts: Why separate accounts won&#39;t hide assets and how joint visibility fosters trust and transparency.</li><li>De-bunking the &quot;50/50&quot; Myth &amp; Non-Financial Contributions: Why earning the income doesn&#39;t make it exclusively his, and how family law evaluates domestic and parenting contributions.</li><li>Recent Changes to Family Law in Australia: How family violence, asset wastage, and housing needs for children are now formally evaluated in property settlements.</li><li>Practical Checklist Before Separating: How to gather essential financial documents, secure your personal devices, and establish financial safety nets.</li><li>Superannuation Splitting Explained: Why women must address super in property settlements rather than walking away empty-handed.</li></ul><p><br></p><p><strong>Key Quotes</strong></p><p><em>&quot;Just because he earned it doesn&#39;t make it his. If you’ve provided the lifestyle, home, and child-rearing that enabled him to build a career, your contribution holds equal value.&quot;</em> — Dianne Loveday</p><p><br></p><p><em>&quot;Knowledge is power. You have to step up, pull on your big girl pants, and ask the uncomfortable financial questions.&quot;</em> — Dianne Loveday</p><p><br></p><p><em>&quot;We teach women that financial literacy isn&#39;t just a bonus—it&#39;s security and freedom.&quot;</em> — Anissa Cavallo</p><p><br></p><p><strong>Resources &amp; Links Mentioned</strong></p><ul><li>Bayside Mediation: <u><a href=\"https://baysidemediation.com.au\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">baysidemediation.com.au</a></u></li><li>Podcast: <em>A Lawyer and A Mediator Walk Into a Bar</em> (Co-hosted by Dianne Loveday) <a href=\"https://lawyermediatorbar.com/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">https://lawyermediatorbar.com/</a></li><li>Subscribe to Listen to More Episodes: Search for <em>She Owns It</em> on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or your favourite podcast app.</li><li>🌐 Website: <a href=\"edaproperty.com.au\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">edaproperty.com.au</a></li><li>📱 Follow Anissa Cavallo on Instagram: anissa_she_owns_it</li></ul><p><br></p><p><strong>Enjoyed this episode? Please leave a 5-star rating and review on Apple Podcasts to help more women take control of their financial future!</strong></p><p><br></p><p><strong>Disclaimer:</strong></p><p>The information provided in this podcast and show notes is general in nature and for educational and entertainment purposes only. It does not constitute personal financial, legal, or taxation advice. It has been prepared without taking into account your individual objectives, financial situation, or needs. Before making any financial decision, you should consider whether the information is appropriate for your circumstances and seek professional advice from a licensed financial advisor, accountant, or legal expert.</p>","author_name":"Anissa Cavallo"}