{"version":"1.0","type":"rich","provider_name":"Acast","provider_url":"https://acast.com","height":250,"width":700,"html":"<iframe src=\"https://embed.acast.com/$/6889fedbbe8bca0ca288454a/69f221a7c2d898b28bb6f740?\" frameBorder=\"0\" width=\"700\" height=\"250\"></iframe>","title":"Late Diagnosis Club: How Scott’s Grief and Burnout Led to His Late Autism Diagnosis","thumbnail_width":200,"thumbnail_height":200,"thumbnail_url":"https://open-images.acast.com/shows/6889fedbbe8bca0ca288454a/1777476792067-ecaf6f3d-310c-4edc-a418-b02fcfa5ae8a.jpeg?height=200","description":"<p><em>Warning: This episode includes discussion of terminal cancer, sudden bereavement, grief, burnout, and mental health struggles. Please listen with care.</em></p><p><br></p><p>In this meeting of The Late Diagnosis Club, Dr Angela Kingdon welcomes Scott Simpson, a late-identified Autistic and ADHD creator, former broadcast journalist, and widowed father who has been raising his son solo since 2016.</p><p><br></p><p>After decades working in radio, Scott’s life began to unravel through grief, burnout, and the collapse of the structures that had quietly supported him for years. What followed was a search to understand executive functioning, ADHD, and eventually Autism.</p><p><br></p><p>Together, Angela and Scott explore hidden support needs, burnout after loss, Autistic shutdown, identity through memoirs and community, and why many late-identified adults only recognise their needs once life’s scaffolding disappears.</p><p><br></p><p>This is a conversation about grief, structure, survival, and finally understanding yourself.</p><p><br></p><p>🪑 Attendees</p><p>Chair: Dr Angela Kingdon — Author, community-builder, and Autistic advocate</p><p>Guest: Scott Simpson — Content creator, former broadcaster, and late-identified AuDHD parent</p><p>You: The Listener!</p><p><br></p><p>🗒️ Meeting Agenda</p><ul><li>Opening remarks from the Chair</li><li>Member introduction: Gifted kid, burnout, and late recognition</li><li>Discussion: Special education and social confusion</li><li>Widowhood, solo parenting, and hidden support needs</li><li>Radio career collapse and autistic burnout</li><li>ADHD diagnosis and later Autism recognition</li><li>Structure, scaffolding, and unmet needs</li><li>Key learnings</li><li>Club announcements</li></ul><p><br></p><p>🧾 Minutes from the Meeting</p><p><br></p><p>1️⃣ Opening Remarks</p><p>Angela introduces Scott Simpson, a creator and former radio professional whose late identification followed years of grief, burnout, and trying to understand why life had become so much harder.</p><p><br></p><p>2️⃣ Member Introduction: Scott’s Story</p><p>Scott was identified as “gifted” in childhood and placed into a specialist education program. While his intelligence was recognised early, his social struggles and deeper support needs were not.</p><p>As an adult, he built a long career in broadcasting, married, became a father, and later experienced profound loss when his wife died of cancer while their son was still young.</p><p>When career structure and family scaffolding fell away, Scott began exploring executive functioning, received an ADHD diagnosis, and later recognised Autism.</p><p><br></p><p>3️⃣ Discussion Highlights</p><ul><li>Gifted program: Early intelligence recognised, while deeper needs were missed</li><li>Smart but struggling: Academic ability masking social confusion</li><li>Relationship patterns: Trying hard without understanding the rules</li><li>Sudden grief: Becoming a widowed father to a three-year-old</li><li>Radio collapse: Career pressure, impossible demands, and burnout</li><li>Hidden scaffolding: Job structure and parenting routines quietly sustaining life</li><li>ADHD first: Executive functioning becomes the doorway to understanding</li><li>Autism later: Shutdowns, overwhelm, and lifelong patterns making sense</li><li>Memoirs mattered: Learning through Autistic voices and lived experience</li><li>Support needs emerge: Struggles become visible once the structure disappears</li></ul><p><br></p><p>4️⃣ Key Learnings</p><ul><li>High achievement can hide unmet support needs.</li><li>Grief and burnout often expose needs that were once masked.</li><li>Executive functioning struggles are often misunderstood as laziness or failure.</li><li>Late recognition can come after life changes remove coping systems.</li><li>Autistic voices and memoirs can be more powerful than diagnostic checklists.</li><li>Support is often invisible until it is gone.</li></ul><p><br></p><p>📌 Notice Board</p><p><a href=\"https://www.scottsimpson.ca/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Scott’s Website</a></p><p><a href=\"https://www.youtube.com/bigasssuperstar\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Scott’s YouTube Channel</a></p><p><br></p><p>📣 Club Announcements</p><p>🎧&nbsp;<em>The Late Diagnosis Club</em>&nbsp;is available on&nbsp;<a href=\"https://open.spotify.com/show/0TXhqtffSfmJrGm5zHANCQ?si=90e3cdf219fe43eb\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Spotify</a>,&nbsp;<a href=\"https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-late-diagnosis-club/id1847627224\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Apple Podcasts</a>, and all major platforms.</p><p>💬 Join our online meetups and community at&nbsp;<a href=\"https://latediagnosis.club/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">latediagnosis.club</a>.</p><p>📌 Check the&nbsp;<a href=\"https://www.autisticculturepodcast.com/t/noticeboard\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">LDC Notice Board</a>&nbsp;for Member Contributions</p><p>💜 There is a small charge — but no one is turned away for lack of funds.</p><p><br></p><p>🌈 Celebrate autistic voices with early access, ad-free listening, and our full archive at&nbsp;<a href=\"http://autisticcultureplus.com/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">AutisticCulturePlus.com</a></p><p>🌐 Visit<a href=\"http://www.autisticculturepodcast.com/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">&nbsp;www.autisticculturepodcast.com</a></p><p>📲 Follow us on Instagram:<a href=\"https://www.instagram.com/autisticculturepodcast\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">&nbsp;@autisticculturepodcast</a></p>","author_name":"Autistic Culture Institute"}