{"version":"1.0","type":"rich","provider_name":"Acast","provider_url":"https://acast.com","height":250,"width":700,"html":"<iframe src=\"https://embed.acast.com/$/6889fedbbe8bca0ca288454a/69bc18df62f6c66afe4c9907?\" frameBorder=\"0\" width=\"700\" height=\"250\"></iframe>","title":"Late Diagnosis Club: How Shyloe Learned to Care for Her Sensitive Heart After Late Diagnosis","thumbnail_width":200,"thumbnail_height":200,"thumbnail_url":"https://open-images.acast.com/shows/6889fedbbe8bca0ca288454a/1773934428552-899215bc-12a7-44e4-a66c-85552b33b8d9.jpeg?height=200","description":"<p>In this meeting of The Late Diagnosis Club, Dr Angela Kingdon welcomes Shyloe Fayad, a late-diagnosed Autistic school counsellor and somatic experiencing practitioner based on the stolen land of the Syilx people of the Okanagan in Canada.</p><p><br></p><p>Shyloe works both within schools and in private practice, supporting neurodivergent people, mixed race communities, and teens and adults navigating depression and anxiety.</p><p><br></p><p>Together, Angela and Shyloe explore sensitivity, boundaries, and the quiet but radical act of honouring your own needs in a culture that often teaches you not to.</p><p><br></p><p>🪑 Attendees</p><p>Chair: Dr Angela Kingdon — Author, community-builder, and Autistic advocate</p><p>Guest: Shyloe Fayad — Late-diagnosed Autistic School counsellor and somatic experiencing practitioner</p><p>You: The Listener!</p><p><br></p><p>🗒️ Meeting Agenda</p><ul><li>Opening remarks from the Chair</li><li>Member introduction: Learning to trust your own needs</li><li>Discussion: Sensitivity, boundaries, and self-trust</li><li>Late diagnosis and identity integration</li><li>Cultural conditioning and productivity expectations</li><li>Emotional processing and internal timing</li><li>Accountability vs compassion</li><li>Key learnings</li><li>Club announcements</li></ul><p><br></p><p>🧾 Minutes from the Meeting</p><p><br></p><p>1️⃣ Opening Remarks</p><p>Angela welcomes Shyloe Fayad to the club, introducing a conversation centred on emotional sensitivity, self-trust, and rebuilding your relationship with yourself after a late diagnosis.</p><p><br></p><p>2️⃣ Member Introduction: Shyloe’s Story</p><p>Shyloe was raised in environments that prioritised productivity, deadlines, and external expectations over internal needs. Over time, this led to a disconnection from her own timing and instincts, something she began to recognise and unlearn following her late Autism diagnosis.</p><p>Her work as a counsellor and somatic practitioner informs this perspective, grounding the conversation in the body, nervous system, and the lived experience of navigating a world that often teaches people not to trust themselves.</p><p><br></p><p>3️⃣ Discussion Highlights</p><ul><li>Sensitivity: Experiencing the world deeply and needing space to process</li><li>Self-trust: Relearning how to listen to internal signals</li><li>Cultural conditioning: Being taught your needs are “less important”</li><li>Productivity pressure: Deadlines overriding well-being</li><li>Women and masking: Social expectations shaping behaviour</li><li>Accountability vs compassion: The tension between rules and humanity</li><li>Black-and-white thinking: Wanting clear rules in complex social situations</li><li>Community: Drawing strength from like-minded people</li><li>Emotional care: Protecting your “sensitive heart”</li></ul><p><br></p><p>4️⃣ Key Learnings</p><ul><li>You have been taught not to trust your needs — and that can be unlearned.</li><li>Sensitivity is not a weakness, but something to be protected.</li><li>There is no perfect rulebook for being human — only ongoing adjustment.</li><li>Accountability and compassion must coexist.</li><li>Late diagnosis is the beginning of rebuilding self-trust.</li><li>Community can help you navigate a world that feels misaligned.</li><li>Honouring your needs is a practice, not a one-time decision.</li><li>You can start again — as many times as you need.</li></ul><p><br></p><p>📌 Notice Board</p><ul><li>Contact Shyloe: radicalwondering@gmail.com</li><li><a href=\"https://www.instagram.com/breathofjoypottery/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Shyloe’s Instagram</a></li><li><a href=\"https://www.instagram.com/radicalwondering/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Radical Wondering Instagram</a></li><li><a href=\"https://www.facebook.com/shyloefayad\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Facebook: Shyloe Fayad</a></li></ul><p><br></p><p>📣 Club Announcements</p><p>🎧&nbsp;<em>The Late Diagnosis Club</em>&nbsp;is available on&nbsp;<a href=\"https://open.spotify.com/show/0TXhqtffSfmJrGm5zHANCQ?si=90e3cdf219fe43eb\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Spotify</a>,&nbsp;<a href=\"https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-late-diagnosis-club/id1847627224\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Apple Podcasts</a>, and all major platforms.</p><p>💬 Join our online meetups and community at&nbsp;<a href=\"https://latediagnosis.club/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">latediagnosis.club</a>.</p><p>📌 Check the&nbsp;<a href=\"https://www.autisticculturepodcast.com/t/noticeboard\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">LDC Notice Board</a>&nbsp;for Member Contributions</p><p>💜 There is a small charge — but no one is turned away for lack of funds.</p><p><br></p><p>🌈 Celebrate autistic voices with early access, ad-free listening, and our full archive at&nbsp;<a href=\"http://autisticcultureplus.com/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">AutisticCulturePlus.com</a></p><p>🌐 Visit<a href=\"http://www.autisticculturepodcast.com/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">&nbsp;www.autisticculturepodcast.com</a></p><p>📲 Follow us on Instagram:<a href=\"https://www.instagram.com/autisticculturepodcast\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">&nbsp;@autisticculturepodcast</a></p>","author_name":"Autistic Culture Institute"}